How often, switching channels, we come across a regular television show, where the participants, like a wave of a magic wand, turn from gray mice to the painted beauties? Shock, admiring close, an extravaganza of emotions and the heroine's thoughts that everything will now be different. A month later, we see the same girl, but in the usual way for her: a complete absence of make-up, old worn jeans, a dimensionless sweater and a pathetic resemblance to a hairstyle in the form of a tattered tail. Why is this happening?
Focus on yourself
Getting to such shows, in the hope of dramatically changing their lives, women often forget, or even do not know that the crux of the problem lies in the head. It's much easier to rely on experienced stylists, make-up artists, fashion critics, and even surgeons, and then - to get a new self. The only catch is that without diligent work on your "I" all efforts are in vain. As is known, our body is peculiar to reject foreign, on the same principle, and the female psyche.
It appears very simple - after some time after you dramatically changed your wardrobe, when you see the amazing reincarnations of TV heroines, the excitement of buying passes quite quickly and gives way to "it's too bright", "I have nothing to wear" , "I have too thick legs for this skirt", "I have nowhere to put on this dress."
Enthusiasm is certainly the best foundation for change, but it must be backed up by self-confidence and a clear sequence of actions. The goal can be anything: the desire to impress a beloved man or to acquire one, the desire to become like your favorite film star, change your attitude to yourself in a team, or simply become feminine and, as Marilyn Monroe, the notorious Marilyn Monroe, "do not worry, but worry."
How to start working on yourself?
- Looking in the mirror, evaluate yourself objectively, pay attention to your shortcomings and virtues. If excess weight is your sworn enemy and hinders you in everyday life, then do not try to justify the unwillingness to get rid of it with the phrase "you need to love yourself for who you are." Ultimately, you do not have anyone to lie to, except yourself, and if you know that you can be better and firmly convinced of it, then start right now. Not with debilitating diets and a gym, try yoga for women , dancing or swimming, and the process will not only be enjoyable, but the results will not be long in coming.
- Pamper yourself. Get fit, do a beautiful manicure, apply a nourishing mask, try different makeup options and choose the most suitable, take time for a hobby. Thus, the process of transformation will give you exceptional pleasure, and its results will be fixed for a long time and will become for you a push for self-improvement.
- Visit the hairdresser. You should not rush to extremes and start with rash radical changes. Remember that you will know yourself again, and so make a haircut, which has long been dreamed of, having consulted with the master beforehand.
- Let's exit the emotions. Sticking in your own juice, you are engaged in oppression of the person and allow others to perceive themselves as "a girl for whipping". Open the world and look at the hostile people. Do not be afraid to go into contact with them, after all, often, in actual fact, it turns out that their aggression is nothing more than a method of protection, and in a tete-a-tete conversation it can turn out that you have not met the soul of a person.
- Get rid of the stamped magazine stereotype, according to which love for yourself begins with expensive linen. Beautiful underwear - this is undoubtedly important, but not everyone can afford to buy several sets of elite brand without feeling a blow to the budget. Pick up the underwear, ideally sitting down on a figure, - advisers with pleasure will help you with it. Let the kit be one, but high-quality and, possibly, even a little bit insolent.
- Do not abruptly change the wardrobe. Let it change under the influence of your momentary impulses, and, in time, instead of the old loose clothes of indeterminate colors, new, pleasing eyes will take over.
The only thing you should not forget about is buying only what you feel is 100% and you know that this thing will not wait for a certain event. - Footwear. For a woman, as you know, it does not happen much. The criteria are simple:
- comfort;
- aestheticism;
- relevance.
Here it is appropriate to mention another world-famous phrase unsurpassed Marilyn: "Give a woman a pair of shoes with stilettos and she will conquer the whole world!"