On the betrayal they say a lot and often, this is one of those issues that women and men are keenly interested in. It's no secret that male adultery is more lenient than a woman's. It is in every way justified by the fact that men are by nature polygamous, that for them treason is not connected with feelings. But if a woman went to the side, then the relationship gave a deep crack, and it is almost impossible to save them.
Statistics of female and male changes
There are data that claim that in about every third family, one of the spouses has an extramarital relationship. At the same time in recent years, women in these indicators do not lag far behind men, and each year their number increases, while the number of men with their mistresses is relatively constant.
Women's betrayal, as statistics show, differs from men's in that in 50% of cases leads to a complete break in relations with the spouse, and only 5% of men go to the mistress of a permanent partner. Let's consider the reasons for such a serious difference in indicators.
Psychology of female adultery
There is an opinion that there is no female infidelity in principle, because it is much more difficult for the fair sex to enter into an intimate relationship without feelings, they are much more thinking about their permanent relationship and their well-being. They have since childhood instilled the role of keeper of the family hearth, which can not afford to expose the family to such a risk. Now this point of view is becoming obsolete. The keepers of the home are now very often self-centered people who listen to their desires and are accustomed to follow them.
But male and female betrayal are still fundamentally different in their causes and subjective attitude towards them. For a woman, extramarital affairs are primarily a betrayal, while men treat their adventures with less conviction, but few can forgive a betrayal of their spouse.
For a man, the cause of treason can be simply impersonal desire, and they will by no means mean that he does not love his wife. The causes of female infidelity are more diverse and reveal numerous problems in the couple's relationship. Let's see,
- that can push the fair sex to look for a new relationship:
- lack of attention on the part of the spouse;
- dissatisfaction with the partner (we are talking about both the intimate life of the couple, and about the material situation, the presence of common interests, etc.);
- self-doubt, the thought of becoming unattractive to men;
- boredom and a desire to escape from routine;
- revenge to a changed partner, etc.
Signs of female infidelity
Men do not pay so much attention to small things, like women. Therefore, ladies sometimes do not consider it necessary to carefully hide their relationship. How can you recognize female adultery?
The first thing that can alert you is the transformation in appearance. If the girl has never been intensely watching herself, and now she does not spare money for a manicure, a pedicure, every morning she does the styling, suddenly depilates and does not try to attract her man's attention, so she did not do it for him.
The second is new habits. If a friend suddenly started with an astonishing regularity to visit the gym, she suddenly became interested in instrumental music or for the first time put her online game online, although no one is playing at home, it means that someone is around her who influences her interests.
Another option, how you can identify female adultery - new things. Bouquets without a special reason, expensive new things, although the increase in salary was not a speech, new cosmetics, perfume and underwear - a sure sign.
And is it worth talking about suspicious calls, messages and too frequent and protracted encounters with friends?
In any case, the changes in relations will be obvious, and, possibly, irreversible. For partners, this test can be an occasion to reflect on and work on your relationship or reason to take a decisive step and release.