How to learn to flirt?

It seems that all the girls know how to flirt with a guy, but some want to learn how to do it right. Explaining that the representatives of the opposite sex react to flirting not as they would like. Since to learn how to flirt with a guy correctly, can this innocent game have to start somehow in a special way? In fact, no one can give clear recommendations - all men are different, and therefore react differently to our methods. And do not imitate anyone, because every woman is interested in exactly her personality, who needs the cliched stamps? But, despite all this, there are several tricks that at all times helped women to give the man a signal of interest in him.

How to learn to flirt with guys?

  1. It has already been said above that flirting is a game that does not necessarily end with a bed, it all depends on what goals you set for yourself. And starting to flirt with a man, you need to determine as clearly as possible what you want from this duel of views - sex or you just need flirting to spend time, get charged with positive emotions (the interest of the opposite sex works better than the chocolate), etc. And having determined the goal, we act accordingly. If you do not want to loom on the horizon, do not need explicit sexual hints, it will be enough only easy interest.
  2. We all know that the girl to start dating is indecent. Although modern ladies who wish to emphasize their emancipation are no longer so embarrassed to show initiative in all spheres of life, it is still not worth doing this, starting flirting. Otherwise, you run the risk of depriving yourself of an interesting game, so do not rush. So, what do you need to do to show the man his interest? It's simple - you really need to be interested in this man and be completely liberated - your behavior will tell you everything - in the language of gestures they know how to say everything, even if they do not know about it. All you need is a pair of interested views (in no case is it a careful drilling of the object with your eyes, as if he owes you money), a sincere smile, a relaxed pose. After all, you in any case want to get pleasure from flirting, so tune into it and enjoy the game already from its first minutes.
  3. Well, here's a longer, than usual look, deployed body in the direction of the attracted object had its effect, and there comes an equally difficult part of this flirting - conversation. What to say is not so important, the main thing is how you will do it. The main rule - say less, listen more. Men love to conquer ladies with their wit, so why not give them this opportunity. And all the comments that will be released you should not be sarcastic, harsh, your sincere interest, your desire to support the conversation is important. And frightening the interlocutor with harsh statements, you run the risk of quitting the game ahead of time. If the pause in the conversation has come, then a good way to continue communication, will be a compliment to a man. It is the man, not his appearance. For example, you wanted to praise his clothes (accessory), what to do? To say what interesting (beautiful, original) you chose your tie (phone, dessert, etc.). That is, it is necessary to note not a thing, but the ability of a man to choose it. And of course, during the conversation light touches are welcomed, again to emphasize their interest in conversation.
  4. How to learn to flirt with a man? It seems that I know what to do, I act accordingly, but still it does not work. Common situation? The reason may be insufficient emancipation, self-confidence or an unprepossessing appearance. To the look of the man stopped just on you, do not hesitate to emphasize and demonstrate the dignity of your figure. Just do not get carried away with too frank dresses, they will rather push the man away, or you will be perceived as a lady who is too frivolous.