From the very childhood, we dream of a prince on a white horse. He is the most beautiful, reliable, kind, gentle, faithful, faithful ... But not all that gold that glitters. Life is unpredictable and often presents unexpected and not always pleasant surprises. What disappointment awaits when it turns out that the object of our love is already ringed, he has a wife, maybe even children ... And we understand that it's impossible, it's not good, but you can not order your heart. And how to be here? How to stop loving a married man when there is absolutely no intention to destroy his family?
A heart, a sweet heart ... There are so many lonely and worthy men in the world, but no, it somehow chose him, married ... And it seems that he is the most-most, and it's better not to ever meet ... You cry, sad, nor with whom he does not want to see others, he alone took possession of all his thoughts and feelings ... And all around, of course, it is advised to throw him out of his head ... But how to stop loving and forget a person when in the depths of his soul there is still the hope that you will be together, and you will be one for him. Of course, you realize that there are very few chances, or almost none, but the beloved promises that he will divorce, but only when the wife is well, the children will grow up, etc. And time goes on and nothing changes. At some point you realize that everything has come to an end to such a relationship without a future, because nothing will ever change.
"I want to stop loving"
To take the first step toward breaking up relations it is very important to take all the will power into a fist and soberly look at the situation. Imagine if suddenly, with the most successful scenario for you, he still divorces and will only belong to you. But can you trust him then? After all, now you are his legal wife, the same as she was, the girl whom he cheated with you. Will not you again and again visit the thought of the same fate? After all, if a person has changed once, what prevents him from changing the second time? Perhaps now your feelings are so strong just because it is not yours and maybe you do not need that kind of "happiness" at all?
The opinion that all men are polygamous and having a wife, they will still change and will never leave their family mistakenly. It happens that a man really falls in love, as they say, for real and leaves the old family. But almost certainly the connection in the former can not be completely cut off, especially if there are children in the marriage and most likely, he will from time to time communicate with his ex-wife. Will you be comfortable in such a relationship, can you call them happy? Probably not. In this case, to fall out of love is necessary, even if it is possible to connect fate with it. The misfortune of others is not the best basis for a happy family.
But it is also possible that your existence behind the scenes of your beloved's life will fully suit him. Think, are they themselves, is it bad for him? There are 2 women whom he really needs, but the fact that he alone deceives without end, and the other suffers from this - for him, believe me, the little things of life. But the sad thing is that you will not have time to look back, how the youth will pass, beauty will pass and most likely you will not need it at all, because, what does "eagle" prevent him from finding someone younger? And you will remain alone for the rest of your life ... Not the best prospect, right?
It is so important to get rid of unhappy relationships. No wonder they say that you can not build happiness on someone else's happiness. And after all