Unfortunately, even the most friendly people are not immune from rudeness and rudeness. Therefore, it is very important to know how to competently and adequately respond to an insult.
How clever to respond to an insult?
- Many are interested in the answer to the question of how to respond ingeniously and ingeniously to an insult, and this is correct, humor can resolve the conflict situation and calm the rude. This is because people who often turn to insults do it not because of a lack of their upbringing, they just like to do it. Such people enjoy seeing the anger of the interlocutor, for them the joy of getting someone out of themselves. Therefore, if you know how ridiculous it is to respond to an insult, do it, the offender will throw such behavior into a stupor. After all, if you laugh at his attacks, then you still do not want to get angry. The ruffian will understand that he will not get what you want and will go looking for a new victim.
- Be sure to take into account the level of the one with whom you communicate - an uneducated rude person will not understand very complex phrases. The humor below the belt and simple sentences - that's it. But the intellectual (or imagining himself), such a manner of communication will only serve as a new occasion for insult.
- How correctly to respond to an insult? Try to understand why a person does this. Bad days happen to everyone, perhaps, a sharp remark is caused by failures at work. In this case, the phrase "bad day" will be enough. An adequate person will confirm this, and apologize to you for the harshness. But if you are dealing with a real "troll", then such a question will cause from his side an even greater stream of insults.
- But no matter how you decide to respond to the insult, do it politely. If a person has offended you unintentionally, it will help you to break up the world. And if you are confronted with a professional boor, then your politeness will show him that here he will not get food for himself.
What can I say to an insult?
- Do not want to communicate with the "troll"? Do not do this, be silent. And his attack "What are you saying, there's nothing to say?", You can always answer. For example, tell him that you can say a lot, but you are afraid that his mind will not be able to understand your statement.
- Have you made an unflattering remark about the appearance? Tell me that they were in a hurry to work and did not have time to look in the mirror. And then, having looked the interlocutor with a look, happily say "Oh, I see, you do not like to look in the mirror either."
- Are you told that you wear cheap clothes? Answer the "hero" that on your figure even beggar rags will look like an evening gown.
- Are you unfoundedly pointing out incompetence? Ask you to teach everything and do not forget to notice that this will be a phenomenal case, because the student knows more teachers.
- Are your work criticized? Throw a criticism on the neck, but do not strangle, but kiss, hug and thank. In response to surprise, say that if he did not like your work, then all the others will definitely be delighted.
- Criticism can be answered in another way. Ask if the brat has specific suggestions how to fix the job. Ham will just snort and, with his nose up, go away, considering himself the master of the situation. An adequate person, even if he has spoken sharply, will try to justify his point of view by proposing options for corrections.
How to learn to respond correctly to insults?
Not all of us know how to find the right answer in a conversation with a rude. This then, moving away from stress, we think how we could now adequately and beautifully respond to the insult, but the moment is already lost. What to do? To learn from your mistakes.
- Do you know that people often use pattern phrases in their speech? "Trolls" also like to do it. Therefore, in order to miss the air next time, like a fish on the shore, train in advance. Make a list of the most common rudiments and come up with worthy answers to them.
- Often people can not respond to rudeness because of their own shyness and uncertainty. Get rid of these qualities, train in front of the mirror a proud posture and then the cads will bypass you.
Good luck in dealing with rude people and less embittered people on the way!