The attraction to the opposite sex is inherent in us by nature itself. To struggle with instincts and desires of a sexual nature is completely meaningless, and for health it is not useful.
Why happens what happens: we meet a sympathetic representative of the opposite sex, admire his character, actions, experience an attraction, but after an intimate affinity with this person, our enthusiasm somewhere treacherously disappears. What to do, who is to blame, because there was no special reason for parting. Here after all an ill luck. It turns out, it's all about the sexual compatibility of people. In this case, in sexual incompatibility ...
Man and woman
Sexual compatibility of a man and a woman depends on the manifestation of oneself in an intimate life, from the sexual temperament of partners. Sexual temperament, of course, all different. But the main aspect of sexual compatibility is that the sexuality of men and women manifests itself in different ways.
What is sexuality? Sexuality, first of all, is a behavioral quality, the presence of which makes a person attractive, gives birth to thoughts about sex (with him or in general). Human sexuality in many ways depends on our ideas and attitudes.
Similarities and differences of male and female sexuality are one of the most difficult issues of sexology. If a woman says that her men are of little interest, then no one will condemn her for this. While a man confesses to the lack of sexual attraction to the opposite sex, we immediately suspect him of being impotent or, worse, a homosexual. It so happened that "a real man", in our usual sense, is, above all, a good male. His sex is inseparable from his sexuality. The strength of a man is, above all, his male power.
According to psychologists who disclose the secret of male and female sexuality, for men, sex is not so much pleasure as work that necessarily requires completion, is aimed at success and achievement of something (for example, orgasm). As for women, this is not the case in this matter. For a woman, sex is associated with enjoyment. Orgasm for her is not a physiological phenomenon, but a mental one. Therefore, you can not concentrate it at any particular point in the body or group of genitals, as it manifests in men. A woman is not a machine, you can not "press a button" and get a sexual reaction. Such behavior towards a woman is not only immoral, but also stupid.
Female sexual reactions in their strength and intensity are many times superior to men's. These reactions depend on general psychological factors, and above all emotional. What can constrain female sexuality? Among the reasons scientists include anti-sexual attitudes, Puritan education (strict education of chastity), and, as a consequence, lack of timely sexual education, as well as primitive sexual technique of a partner who does not pay proper attention to love caresses.
Male sexuality, in general, looks more aggressive, excitable and unrestrained than female. And there's nothing you can do about it.
Compatibility test
How to determine the sexual compatibility of partners - in addressing this issue, you can go several ways:
- The secret of the name. Strangely enough, for some people, the sexual compatibility of names is very important. Such an approach is to study the mystery of the name, the nature of its owner, temperament. Then you can already make conclusions about the sexual compatibility of partners. But let's not forget that all people are different and under one common standard, no one is to be driven.
- Blood type. Sexual compatibility, according to the Japanese, is determined by the blood group. So, for example, the Japanese believe that if a man wants a passionate partner, he should choose his woman with the first blood group. In the future, if a man
marries a woman with the first blood group, he will never be deprived of caresses. Such wives force their husbands to late in the morning to work. A woman with the first blood group is an ideal lover, who always meets the partner's expectations.
Sexual compatibility depends on the "sexual appetite" of partners, on the degree of their own complexities and sexual awareness. In a relationship with a loved one, any manifestation of feelings is beautiful, so the desire to please each other should not be embarrassing, but, on the contrary, requires complete emancipation and trust.