Women are divided into those who prefer to wait until they are subdued, and those that go on the attack themselves. But in order to subjugate the girl, she must first offend the male representative, that is, win her charm.
They say that the way to the heart of a man lies through his stomach. We will try to list a few more ways, in case he does not yet enter your kitchen.
Sincerity
Getting acquainted with a representative of the opposite sex, any woman wants to like him, reach out to the heart of a man, even if this particular person does not interest her at all. This - animal competition, which says that there is a need, as long as there is, that is.
But by coincidence of fateful circumstances, it probably happened that you were on the first date, completely unwilling and not trying to please: you said everything you think without censorship, behave freely and uninhibited. In the end, without wanting it, you found the key to the heart of any man - sincerity , and in return, got yours, conquered, tied and forever only by your male.
Men are also people, and people do not like it when they are trying to get around a finger, even if they do it very skillfully. So, first of all, be sincere.
Women's power
Men are physically strong, and women are mentally strong. Our spirit is our strength, and we can show our beautiful spirit without speaking about it all the evening (for women's chatter, see below). Let the heart of the man hold you a radiant smile that will certify him that you are a positive, balanced and optimistic person.
Note: men, of course, love women in secret, but for a long relationship they instinctively choose stable, predictable partners.
Women's weakness
Yes, we like to chat with a girlfriend (girlfriends) on the phone and can do this for hours and days on end. But this does not mean that you are such a polished conversationalist, that the first thing to be demonstrated when getting to know a man is your recitative skills.
Men, in their majority, are themselves chatterboxes. And since you are interested in asking how to get hold of a man's heart, get ready for the fact that you will need a smile and listening skills.
Do not forget to navigate in the course of actions: without hurrying, determine with whom you are dealing - with a chatterbox or silent. With a chatterbox, of course, listen, but with silent - say.
Note: Men themselves admit that a woman should understand them well and love them a little. The word "understanding" implies the ability to listen attentively.
Agree or debate?
Continuing the topic of conversations with men, and also, not forgetting how to conquer the heart of a man, we'll figure out how to listen and how to talk.
Of course, from time to time and silently you need to give signs of life. Most women bring to such perfection the ability to listen to everything that they "say" - words and phrases of consent - "yes", "of course," "absolutely true," and the longest "completely agree with you."
But our task is to show that you are a full-fledged person, with an individual human being
Men do not want to be agreed with them. They want their point of view to be shared, or fully arguing, challenged. A little discussion (without heat and passion) will be very useful for starting a conversation . This, at least, will show that your intellectual level allows you to have a certain vocabulary.
But in many respects, after all, it is recommended to divide the male point of view. A man wants to feel "head" even on the first date, and therefore, his opinion should be placed above yours, in other words, he should be more likely to be right, or at least to consider that he is more competent.