The relationship between a guy and a girl is not always accompanied by happiness and joy. Sometimes there come moments that negative emotions or cold make a relationship. Although these are not very pleasant periods, but they help to better understand the relationship and draw some conclusions for themselves.
Girls very often worry about the fact that the guy began to love less than before. However, if the guy has cooled, the signs will be visible right away. They will be able to see not only the girl herself, but also the surrounding people.
How to understand that the guy has grown cold?
Often, girls judge about the relationship of the behavior of the guy. It seems to her that if a guy loves her, then he will always show the same signs of attention that he first met. However, it should be understood that the relationship can not always be at the top of the passions. And it's normal if a guy stopped ringing a hundred times a day and giving bouquets of flowers every day. It is possible that he gained confidence in the relationship and returned to important matters.
Cooling of feelings implies something else. The fact that the guy has cooled down sharply may mean that he has lost interest in the girl, does not want to spend time with her and meet.
Signs of cooling feelings on the part of the guy can be:
- reluctance to meet, excuses, that he was tired, busy, did not have time. And such excuses appear almost every day, and the guy does nothing to still meet;
- he lost interest in the life of the girl, he does not care how she spent time all day and with whom she met;
- at a meeting, he can soon have supper, have sex and go to bed or leave;
- he does not plan a joint future;
- conversations on the phone became fast and common;
- when trying to talk about feelings a guy can begin to blame the whole girl, not giving her the opportunity to say anything.
If the signs of the problem have become definitely noticeable, then it's worth thinking about what to do if the guy has grown cold. However, for this you need to be sure that it's not that the relationship has moved to a more relaxed stage, or the guy, in fact, has problems at work.
What if the guy has grown cold?
Many girls do not know what to do if you feel that the guy has grown cold. Therefore, representatives of the beautiful half of humanity begin to panic and make mistakes, than approach the time of separation.
If there is a suspicion that the feelings of the guy are on the decline, you need:
- Stop controlling the guy. Men are by nature free to love. They are annoyed when someone is constantly watching them.
- Do not impose. Men are hunters, so we need to give them a chance to call first, to say the important words first, to make an appointment first. Do not be easily accessible and agree to meet at any time of the day or night. The guy should feel your importance and the fact that you do not belong to him and can disappear from his life at any time.
- It is necessary to be beautiful and charming. Long meetings should not be an excuse to stop watching yourself. Required
be always attractive, blooming and bright. - Do not go to talk to put all the dots over the "and". If a guy is important to you, it's better to try to restore the relationship carefully and unobtrusively. Sometimes a guy does not understand what he does not like. In this case, there is every chance to pull yourself together and re-conquer your loved one.
- Do everything to spend time together: do his hobbies , spend time with his friends and family.
What if the guy has cooled off at a distance?
The distance quite often quenches an unripened love. It is very difficult to fight for love at a distance. However, here you can apply the above rules: do not impose, provide freedom, make you jealous.