Often, it is difficult for women to understand men, they do not understand the motives of their actions, their goals and desires. But it is only necessary to find out what men want most of what they expect from life and what they seek with all their passion - and not only questions and misunderstandings, but also many conflicts will disappear.
So, what does every man want?
Be Best, First, Chief
This is the main desire of almost all representatives of the stronger sex. Whatever they do, whatever they strive for, they are eager to prove - "I am not worse than others (and in something even better)." Of course, all men perfectly understand that it is always impossible to be first and in everything, but they will necessarily find something of their own, in which they could be "number one". It is important for them to realize this right - to be proud of themselves and to show others (especially women) that they are worth something. That's why he is not at home, spending so much time and energy concentrating on his business - because he wants to achieve success and take place as a man. On this depends his mood and attitude to himself.
Achieve your goals
It is very important. When a man does everything to translate his intentions into reality, he feels confident, right. What do men most often want, what do they want? Everyone has their own goal - to build a house or career, to conquer as many mountain peaks or women as possible, to pump up muscles or open a business ... But they all do it in order to receive the approval of other men and the admiration of women.
Have sex
That's what all men want, and married, and divorced, and single. Sex is necessary for them, it is their need to have a physical, real confirmation of love, acceptance, recognition and support. So they express their feelings and understand that they need a beloved woman. So self-affirming and get psychological relaxation. Sex gives them self-confidence, a sense of their masculinity and strength.
And no matter how wonderful his relationship with his wife or mistress was, if they start blackmailing him with sex, he will not tolerate it and go looking for a woman who will agree to satisfy his needs and desires.
Get support
To be the strongest, to protect, to achieve, to provide is the destination of any man. And complaining, dropping hands and asking for praise is not their destiny. But this does not mean that they do not need encouraging words and sympathy. Men are also important to know that they are loved, they are proud of, and their actions and achievements are valued. And they will be able to find out if they talk about it.
How to understand what a man wants to hear, what words does he expect most? Of course, there are those who will confirm to him that he is the best, the most intelligent, courageous and talented. What with him - like a stone wall. That he is the hope and support of the family. Loved, desired and beautiful. That a woman believes in him and he will succeed.
A man wants to hear from a woman that she appreciates him and cherishes them. It's just that everyone is used to the fact that women love with their ears, and they know how important they are with compliments and confessions of love. But men are just as sensitive and sentimental.
To receive gratitude
And it's nothing at all! You just need to say: "Thank you! I am so grateful to you for what you are doing! ".
It's so easy to understand that a man, like any other, does not want complaints, criticism and ridicule! He wants to be loved and accepted. And as every person, being confident in love and support, he is ready to change for the sake of his beloved and become even better, even more successful!