How to attract a man?

Every day on the way there is not one man, some throw interested looks and make compliments of varying degrees of innocence, but this all ends. So how to get a man to really be interested in him? Many people think that there will be enough open dress and tall pins to immediately begin to detect the signs of an enthusiastic man. But this is only a way to catch the first glance, to get a more sustainable interest you will have to acquire not only beautiful clothes.

How to win a man?

Before making an offensive plan, it is worth to learn more about the object you are interested in. Because the ways how to entice a free colleague at work and a married man can not help but be different. Of course, it is not necessary to compile a complete dossier, but to receive at least some information about its character or interests, it does not hurt. Well, then you just need to show your interest, trying to stay with him in an informal atmosphere more often or to communicate on abstract topics. In the case of a colleague, a lunch break or a meeting in the smoking area may be appropriate. And the following guidelines will help you avoid the most common mistakes.

  1. Frequent communication, of course, is good, but to turn into a persecutor is not worth it. Leave him and yourself free space, do not throw it with messages, and sometimes refuse to meet.
  2. If you decide to share your feelings with him, then do not be too zealous. Even the closest person can get tired of constant whining.
  3. Do not try to follow the advice of fashion magazines, creating a dream girl: with moderate mental abilities, but perfectly well-groomed and absolutely submissive. You want him to fall in love with you, not in a fictional picture.
  4. Treat him with respect, do not doubt the abilities of your chosen one, but do not idealize too much. Nobody is perfect, so both of you will have to accept each other with all the shortcomings.
  5. If you think how to carry away a married man, you'll have to understand exactly why you need it. Do you want to take his wife's place or wait for a non-binding affair? In the first case, you will have to be especially attentive, since no one will give a guarantee to a man that by marrying you he will not receive a copy of an already existing partner. The second option a little easier for execution, but for this it is desirable at least once to look at his wife to understand what in the family life is not enough, find the weak points.

The fact that all your efforts are not in vain will tell the signs of an enthusiastic man. For example, changing the timbre of the voice to a softer and velvet while communicating with you, a desire to attract your attention, finding pretexts for new meetings with you. Sometimes when talking with an interesting girl a man shows signs of nervousness, gets lost from the pace of speech or just looks embarrassed.