How to behave with a lover?

The concept of "lover" has several definitions. If you interpret the meaning of this word from the point of view of love, then this is a close, beloved person.

Another definition is based on intimate relationships. To be more precise, the lover is one with whom you have sex and do not have special obligations to each other.

The third definition is similar to the previous one. Being married, relations on the side are initiated with a lover or lover. Again, this relationship is of an intimate nature. Between partners, love may not be. These relationships can be based on passion, sexual attraction, sympathy.

Discuss today how to properly behave with a lover.

Birds of the coast

Unmarried people who love each other used to be called lovers. If your lover is an expensive and close person, you dream of a happy life together, a big family and think about a wedding, then you need to observe some rules in dealing with a man:

• do not put pressure on him. The initiative with marriage should come from a man. You can only bring him to this in every way, using all the female tricks and tricks;
• be sincere. Love and rejoice in each moment spent together. Do not get hung up on the stamp in your passport. The more you show calmness, and even indifference to marriage, the sooner your half will want to lead you to the crown;
• be feminine. Do not forget about yourself for a minute. Strive for perfection both externally and spiritually. Attend the gym, watch for food, be always in shape. As they say, in a healthy body - a healthy mind;
• develop and always remain an interesting companion. Have a hobby, classes for the soul and intellect. Be interested in what you do not know yet, try to be "greedy" before life.

Enchanted, ringed

Many are interested in the question of how to behave with a lover, being married. To say that treason is mean and low is meaningless. Everyone does what he wants, this is a private matter for everyone. And on merit, everyone will also be rewarded. If you find a person "on the side", which is experiencing craving, attraction, it is important to keep it at a distance. Do not want to destroy marriage - it's your choice. So you need to make every effort to ensure that the lover does not have the opportunity to "meet" in your family life.

How should the lover behave in this case?

First, he should be satisfied with the conditions within which your relations exist. If he expects more, for example, that you leave your husband, you will be hard with him. Of course, provided that you do not plan to do so in the near future.

Secondly, a man should not cause a suspicion on the part of your husband. No nocturnal sms and calls. All this should happen at a strictly stipulated time.

Thirdly, he should be good in bed and give gifts. Both partners receive from such a relationship, what they want: he is sex, she is attention and a sense of her desire. It is the latter that is the cause of female betrayal. Not so much sex wants married girls, how much attention and romance, which lacks in family life. After unsuccessful attempts to add passion to the relationship with her husband, many women are trying to find what they lack in the arms of a lover. The whirlwind of feelings and emotions that are so necessary to each, can sometimes be obtained only on the side. It is sad, but true.

Adultery infidelity is something for which in most cases it is very generous to pay. Take care of the family and love, through which it was created.