How to make an offer to a man?

No, no, this is not the right place! How to invite a man or a guy to marry ... I already started a nervous itch. I can not imagine that a girl makes a guy an offer. Or that a woman proposes to a man. A woman can make a man offer in one single case, namely: when she is absolutely sure that he does not speak to her about marriage only because he is afraid to hear from her a categorical "No".

Make an offer or not?

Cute girl! Yes-yes, you! Which has decided to make an offer to a beloved man. Here and now. Finally and without unnecessary omissions. Have you ever thought that this man (who, I understand, is much older than you) did not wave a pen for you for one and only reason? Namely - because you have not even once squeaked about how desperately you want him to make you an offer? When a man, indeed, has the intention to marry a girl who is much younger than him, he does not think too long. And the offer of his hand, and at the same time the heart, the young woman gets from this man very, very quickly.

The same situation with a woman. If a man does not make an offer to her, then he is not going to legitimize his relationship with her - at least in this part of his life. So simple. How else? Or someone seriously believes that the proposal to marry a man is prevented by excessive shyness?

Lovely enamored girls-women-comrades-ladies! Instead of puzzling yourself with the question of how you make an offer to your beloved man, it's better to think about your leisure at another. Namely: how to provoke this man himself to make you an offer? I will repeat. If a man does not talk to you about the wedding, it means one of three: either he is not sure that you love him, or he does not yet think about family life, or he is not going to marry you at all. And what should I do? In any case - do not make him an offer of the hand and the heart itself!

A man, as a rule, always needs a little push, and such a push can perfectly become your confession (or semicognitive) in love. "I'm glad that we are together", "I would not want us to ever part" ... Speak such neutral phrases as if by the way. Be sure: the man will hear them very well, and will understand very well what exactly you are trying to tell him. And then - just watch his reaction. Probably, the offer of an arm or a hand and the heart to the man will make you instantly (as it was with me). Perhaps it will take him some time to clarify his feelings for you. But perhaps - and you need to prepare yourself for this - it will soon terminate your relationship. The most important thing here is to remain frank with yourself, and in advance clearly determine for yourself how many months or years of your life you are ready to throw out for waiting.

Whatever it was, a woman can not offer a man to marry her, it's not accepted. And it is not accepted, first of all, in the world of men themselves. The proposal to get married is made by a man! A woman (girl) takes it (or does not accept) - this is how she decides to dispose of his fate.

And if you really want to?

Do not you agree with what I'm saying? You are still patiently waiting for an answer to the question, how is it better for you to make an offer to your man? You are more than ever confident that a woman and a woman can offer a marriage proposal - but a man can decide whether to grant this woman the honor of accepting her offer? Well, a position that is completely alien to me (I admit!), Which, nevertheless, "has a right to exist" (so, it seems, is usually said?) And what, in fact, is the complexity? "I love you very much. Do not you want to become my husband? " That's all. The proposal is done. And do you get in return the hand and heart of your man - this is as he pleases.

But for the girl who is not going to make her boyfriend an offer to marry her, and also for the woman who will never make the same offer to her man, I'll repeat it all the same. Once a man decides to make you an offer - he will make it. Even if he, a man, lives on the other side of the planet. Even if he does not know a word in your language. The same applies to the guy. Just allow yourself the luxury of being proud - and wait for this moment.