Modern trends in the relationship of opposite sex is very different from those that existed before. Now men are no longer inclined to spend a lot of time and effort to win a lady and enter into a relationship with her, so a proposal of this kind can come from a man when you are, to put it mildly, not ready for it. Therefore, the actual question is how to politely refuse a man if in your opinion he is too in a hurry.
Indecisive and timid woman, of course, immediately wants to reject such a proposal, but the fear of offending a man and thinking about whether or not to be denied will be so significant that she will long seek excuses before expressing her reluctance to approach this person. A confident woman who knows the sense in men will refuse without delay.
How to refuse?
Each guy is different and he needs his own approach. Here are some recommendations on how to break off relations altogether or even stop them altogether.
- Be able to say no. If you want to give up a relationship with a man and do not know how to refuse to meet the main advice for you will be - do not waste time, but immediately express your intentions.
- Obsessive fan. If a guy has gotten into the habit of often visiting you without any consent from you, and you are thinking how to refuse to meet or prevent him from going to visit you, then you should act like this: if you have a dog, then during the visit of an uninvited guest you can refer to the fact that you need to immediately walk a pet, so you can not stay alone together.
- How to refuse the former. If your ex-boyfriend wants to renew a relationship, and you do not share his desire, then you should not give him any hopes and immediately declare a reluctance to restore long-forgotten feelings.
The most important thing in such a situation is not to forget that a man as well as you have feelings, so I'm extremely honest with him and speak as loyally as possible, and not "chop off" with harsh statements.