Between two people a lot can happen: and the guy may be wrong, and the girl. All this makes relations more strained. In the end, probably, there will be an explosion. Need to do something.
Here at once several questions and, probably, several answers. To begin with, it would be worth honestly to answer: did the guy offend? Or maybe you are offended by yourself?
If the offense was still (the guy cheated, naham, did not fulfill the promise, etc.), then it's worth to look closely if he realizes it. Maybe he thinks that "these are the rules of the game," as the song says. There are a lot of low-value books, where guys are told about girls of fables, and the guys read, believe and act on the advice of grieving authors.
If the guy is aware of the guilt, then it is not worthwhile punishing him, everyone has the right to make a mistake.
How can you punish a guy loving if he offended the girl and does not realize it?
- It would be better to let them know that they do not do that. Simulate a mirror situation, but remember: many things people perceive morbidly than girls, and many - on the contrary. If the guy himself went to a friend on his birthday, and the girl did not even warn, then she also needs to go somewhere without him. And also not to warn. And when he is indignant, play a surprise: "Are you offended? But why??? After all, you yourself always do this! "Only do not speak vindictively:" Aha! Now you understand what I feel ... "
- Often, girls choose the tool of revenge for jealousy and provoke a loved one, so that he begins to be jealous. Here the main thing is not to overdo it and fine everything, without vulgarity about frank flirting with another.
- Men do not want to see an unhappy woman beside themselves, so the image of the victim (apathy, full of anguish and resentment of the eye, etc.), provisional for a while, can help the culprit to admit his mistake and cause him to suffer the guilt of conscience.
- If the advice above did not help, a good way to get revenge on the guy for offense can be a total ignore. Do not answer the phone, do not answer the message, do not go to the contact at all. But at the same time, more often in public and, as it were, not bad at heart, portray yourself as a radiant woman.
- Well, where to go without the most common way of manipulating men? Tears, abundant and frequent, crying sobs will not leave indifferent the offender. And even if you do not understand your offense, then simply the desire not to see the sobbing of the girl (which is not easy to endure) will force the young man to return the beloved's location in any ways.
And if he offended intentionally? So, the girl is not very dear to him, and instead of speculating on how to punish a beloved guy, it's better to think about not parting with him until he spoiled life?