Fortunetelling like "likes - does not like" does not leave a woman's life, even when the adolescence is over, and the petals of the daisy have long been not considered a true source of information. The question of how to verify the sincerity of feelings is always relevant.
How to test a person's feelings and what is better not to do
Among the mass of advice that you can hear about this, if there are a lot of those that are simply useless. Among them there are dubious, which should not be trusted.
- Ask directly. If a person does not understand why you will know this, he will not tell you anything. And anyway, if he could tell you directly, he would have done it already! This only says that either he does not feel this, or is not yet ready to say. To climb with with questions it is not necessary.
- Ask common friends. Firstly, it looks silly enough, and secondly, to involve third parties in the relationship - always brings some problems. It's not enough, in what form this information will reach a man: they can tell him that you are going crazy with love, which will obviously diminish his interest. In addition, other incidental situations are possible, so do not rush into asking.
- Visiting a fortuneteller and especially - independent guessing. Today, professional fortune tellers are very difficult to find among the huge number of charlatans and deceivers, who for your money will say everything you want to hear. And guessing yourself and hoping for a truthful result is the same as cutting yourself an appendicitis on a medical guide. Still, it is worth leaving the magic to professionals, because you can not trust such results anyway.
Of all the ways how to test a guy for feelings, it is better to choose the more logical and correct ones, rather than wasting time on such useless things. Do not complicate life - to see someone's feelings is not so difficult.
How to test the feelings of a man?
First of all, let us turn to deduction and observation. Here everything is quite simple, and it is not necessary to be a professional psychologist to understand something.
- If a man wants to be near you, he asks you questions, is interested in your life, tries to be present as often as possible - watch him. This is a very good sign, and unless you remind him of his bride, maybe he is really in love with you.
- If a man is attentive to your affairs - this is an excellent sign. He will visit you when you are sick, give a bouquet of flowers for your birthday, will be concerned when he finds out about your departure or business trip. Sudden surprises and gifts say the same. If this is not love, then a strong interest in you.
- If a man constantly sets you apart, tells you compliments, notices the smallest changes in makeup or clothes - it's also a wonderful sign. A man you are not interested in simply will not remember you in such details to see the changes.
- You discover that he knows a lot about you and remembers. If a man knows your phone numbers by heart, all the dates associated with you, your favorite color, etc. - means, you are not indifferent to him.
Agree, we are ready to remember something only in the event that this information is important for us. - You catch his eyes on him. He admires you, no matter what you do. Usually he is embarrassed when you cross your eyes, and takes them aside. Looks are the right sign of interest to you.
- You notice jealousy in his eyes, and sometimes in actions. He does not like it when you communicate with other men, even if you are nobody to him. This is a sure sign of special treatment to you.
The combination of several of these signs, as a rule, indicates that this person really loves you. And if it turns out that he starts listening to the music you mentioned as your favorite, or reading the books you talked about, it's an obvious attempt to approach you, to create common interests. Many of these tips will also help in the question of how to check whether the feelings of the former have remained.