Fell in love with a married man - what to do?

Bright emotions, strong feelings and the feeling that behind them wings appeared: a man appeared in your life. Well, you can congratulate, but not if you fell in love with a married man, because what to do in this situation and how to deal with the fact that the beloved is not free will have to decide and sooner or later it will be necessary to decide: to be content with the second wife in the harem or take him away from the family.

What should married ladies do?

Many of those who are bound by the ties of Hymen, do not see anything wrong with their lover or lover on the side. As they say, "the leftist strengthens the marriage" and if no one plans to leave the family, then the main thing is to be cleverly encrypted and not to put feelings of the second half under stress. But if the situation has gone too far, it is worthwhile to think carefully about whether it is worth the "candleworm" and whether you will regret that you have broken the habitual way of life, injured children and exchanged their father for a stranger. If you fell in love with a beautiful and married, it's not a fact that he plans a serious relationship with you. Of course, I want such passion and fire as Anna Karenina, but I want such a destiny?

What to do unmarried?

Unrelated marriage in this situation is not to be envied. To meet a married, not free man is to lead a life in eternal expectation: he will come-he will not come, he will call-he will not call. Crying in the pillow, meeting the new year and March 8 alone. Doom yourself to loneliness and childlessness. There is an opinion that such ladies simply subconsciously flee from men with whom they could build a family and choose not free, to which it is always fun, beautiful and adrenaline boils in the blood. They themselves are not ready to wallow in life and do not expect that a man will leave his family for them. Well, this is their choice and condemn someone we here have no right.

Another thing, if love with a married man brings suffering, if you realize the sinfulness of such a relationship and the pathological nature of a feeling that can not end well. Here it is necessary to take measures to get rid of forbidden love. Try to see in your man not only good features, but also shortcomings, refuse him in meetings, switch to anything else, sign up for a dance or start running around in the evening together with your girlfriend.

A romance with a beloved married man can lead to him leaving the family only when you both want it and are ready for all the possible consequences. If you are sure that this is your second half, then you can dare and go to the end, regardless of any obstacles.