"The idea that everything earthly is not eternal, infinitely cruel and endlessly comforting"
Maria-Ebner Eschenbach
Before you think about whether love can pass, remember that nothing in this world disappears, only it is transformed. And love, too, never passes without a trace. Sometimes it turns into friendship, sometimes - into hatred, and sometimes - in remembrance or habit. Maybe it's time to unleash a knot of relationships to go further, but how do you understand that this time has come? How to know that love has passed, and indeed, if it passes, if true. We will talk about this today.
How to understand that love has passed?
There is no unequivocal answer to the question: why does love pass. This can be caused by external factors (distance, chronic material problems, gossip, etc.), as well as your internal changes. First love, as a rule, does not pass quickly, precisely because it has little to do with external factors, but inside we keep this feeling long and true, because it is connected with new ones that are new to us, but such inviting senses.
So, how to understand if your love has passed:
- you start to get annoyed by his habits or behavior. Even in appearance, you can discover for yourself something unusual and unpleasant (remember Anna Karenina, when she was suddenly struck by the protruding ears of her husband). Irritation is the first sign that your relationship has given a very serious crack;
- do not worry about quarrels. If you do not know how to understand if love has passed, listen to yourself during a quarrel. There is no indignation? You do not care, reconcile or not (or, at heart, the idea that never does warms);
- forget about its existence. At the end of the day you suddenly think of a person and that, just because you promised to make dinner. When love passes, you do not even think that you can do everyday things, such as cleaning or even watching a show, together;
- you become isolated in yourself, everyone lives in his own space. Conversations are reduced to monosyllabic sentences, and after work you wander around in different directions. You do not want to share your impressions, and to know how things are in half, too;
- do not experience any sexual attraction. The presence of sex is not yet an indicator of love, but its absence is definitely an alarming sign. A temporary lack of attraction is for every woman, however, if you have long perceived sex as an annoying duty, this is an occasion to reflect;
- loss of humor. You no longer laugh at the same jokes, not to mention the jokes of a loved one before;
- make a decision alone, think like a separate "I". And just put each other before the fact;
- rejoice when there is separation. If the young man's words about the forthcoming business trip, the heart joyously answers "hurray", and you immediately think about what you will do without it, most likely, the love has passed.
After what time does love pass?
How quickly love passes depends, of course, on the original strength of the senses. However, the notorious crises (3, 7 and more years) are not at all gravestones on love. It is rather a time of rethinking and transition to a new stage of relations. But sometimes it happens that it is at this time from the depths of the soul emerges devastating and at the same time oppressive feeling that you no longer love this person. What's next?
Love has passed, what to do?
How often,