Adored position of men and the most delicate posture for women. What are we talking about? On the controversial pose of a rider, of course. We will tell you why it is so appreciated by men, why women are afraid of it, and how to play this role to ladies in bed.
Adoration of men
Men love the pose of horsewomen, because only in it they can afford to receive pure pleasure and at the same time, do not waste energy. By the way, ejaculation in men - a very energy-intensive process, so they instinctively save energy for ejaculation, choosing the position of the rider.
But that is not all. Have you heard about what men love with their eyes? Your naked body in front of his agitated gaze is the best of the best porn films he has seen. In addition, their hands are completely free, which means they can devote them to the lazy caress of the clitoris.
Women's scruples
Most women either patiently fulfill their duty to their loved ones and unwillingly become riders, or they simply refuse to do this. The men are silently surprised.
The reason, of course, is the ignorance of the exact technique of the rider's pose. Women are used to male domination, but here it is necessary to take matters into their own hands. When you undertake something, you feel responsible and suddenly questions arise before your eyes: "And, suddenly, he does not like?", "What if I do not bring him to orgasm?", "What if his ex did it better?" and so on.
These are complexes in combination with ignorance. The latter will dispel, thereby, getting rid of fear of the unknown.
rules
The basic rule of the pose of a rider is a woman on top, a man from below. How will you squirm sitting on horseback - it's the tenth thing, the main thing is to sit on that top.
The most comfortable option is with a man sitting on a chair. Then, for support, you can use the back of the chair, sitting comfortably on your partner's lap. Thus, you will feel your stability in such a shaky position.
If the whole thing happens in bed, we recommend that you hold on to the partner's shoulders.
As for your feet. They can be wrapped around the hips of the partner - this is the classic correct position of the rider, you can sit on a low bench, resting on the bed with your feet, or you can (if you have the flexibility) to lift your legs on your partner's shoulders. In the latter version, be sure, your man will be extremely grateful to you, because it will open a beautiful view of your genitals.
To get rid of the fear of sitting on the penis in a vertical position, bend the body to the partner's face as low as possible. So, you will mislead yourself that you simply lie face to face and do everything as usual.
The reverse position of the rider is done, as expected, on the contrary. Your man sits or lies, and you sit on his penis with his back to him. In this position, the partner should help you maintain balance and hold your hips, thereby sharing the responsibility for speed and depth with you. You can rest against the bed or his knees with your hands, bend forward slightly or bend over to it.
Movement in the pose of a rider
The last thing that remains for us to disassemble is how to move in the position of a rider. Variations depend on your imagination.
You can move like a classic rider - forward - back. You can rotate on the penis in a circle, and you can arbitrarily change the angle of the entrance, bending in different directions, rising and sitting down, bringing your man to an unforgettable orgasm.
And one more small rule. In order to be a good "rider", you need to have well-developed muscles of the small pelvis, the press , hands and thighs. Conclusion - it's time to do your physical training, which will not only improve the sensations in sex, but also relieve the shyness in such a frank for viewing posture.