Do you remember how difficult this relationship was built? How did the grain grow with the grain, how was the "candy-bouquet" stage, how did you get to know each other step by step, day by day, meeting after meeting? And now, this has turned into a painful unwillingness to see or hear your once adored ... Inside the guilt is not clear, as it has arisen and because of what, he does not yet know about your decision. Then, perhaps, your sense of guilt really is a shame for the time spent wasted.
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Fight with a sense of guilt, shame, regret, pain, we'll be at another time. And now let's get down to business directly: how to say that you have already decided everything for yourself and no one will change your arguments, requests, proposals.
- For the most cowardly - sms parting. It all depends on your age and experience, because if this is the first parting in life, maybe it's even better. The harm of sms-farewells is that this parting is not final both for you and for him. Immediately after the rupture of the deed, almost everyone regrets. You will begin to believe that when you meet, you can all replay, because it was just a text message. You can not do this to parting: leaving, go away forever. We made a decision, took a step in the form of sending a message (even if not the bravest one) - go to the end and take responsibility for your action.
- Social networks - taking into account the fact that love increasingly becomes virtual, and our acquaintances and even more so are born in the Internet space, "loving" each other in facebook / facebook / twitter, we can also allow parting according to the rules of virtual communities. A short and dry message or a long and sensual letter with a list of all its errors - it does not matter what you choose, most importantly, without waiting for an answer and continuing correspondence, send your lover to the spam lists.
- For classical lovers, if you are a fan of Dumas' novels and live more in bourgeois France of the eighteenth century, the first thing that could come to your mind is a long farewell letter on high-quality and slightly scented paper, written with a pen. Well, if it's in your style, take care of a strict envelope, and when the drama of parting is behind, remember your actions, like an episode from a novel.
- You can not force yourself to part - do so that they want to part with you. Maybe you have a girlfriend that your unwanted will like? The plan is treacherous and the girlfriend will have to notify you of your intentions, but will not it be less painful if everyone will win?
- If you do not have the willpower to say, everything is as it is, but there is patience to lead the game gradually, do everything to stop loving you. First, start to extol the qualities of your boyfriend's competitors. Men really do not like comparisons.
- Talk about your "illnesses" - that hair falls out, the skin peels off, bones ache, heart knives, etc. If your future ex is not a fanatic physician, he will not want to mess with the "dohchetz".
- Distort all his compliments , this will infuriate him, and it's not difficult for you to take advantage of this natural skill of women. If MCH says that you are especially beautiful today, take offense and parry - "It turns out, usually I'm not beautiful!".
- Late always and everywhere. You can easily get it, but it will quickly get bored.
- Determine who likes your victim - smart or silly. Be contrary to his preferences and if he likes silly little ones, pick up something scientific and repeat the monologue all evening. Tomorrow you will not be called.
- In the end, just say it as it is. Do not be afraid, this is a responsible step, but it's not fair to fool one another's heads. If your, as long as the boyfriend is a sane person, he will understand everything, accept and respect you for the deed. And if you were lucky enough to meet a psychopath or just a very passionate person, schedule a meeting with revelations in the most crowded place. Then you will be saved from flames of anger.