Adultery - this is very unpleasant, even if it resulted in some kind of unfortunate accident. The sense of guilt and the desire to save the family cause the woman to rush about and seek a solution to the problem, related to the fact that she has betrayed her husband and does not know what to do, so that he will forgive. First you need to calm down and try to figure out why it happened.
Determine the reasons
To chart for yourself at least an approximate plan of action, you need to understand what pushed you to change. For example, quite often you can hear from a woman that she has changed her husband by drunk and what to do after that, does not represent at all. It is possible that alcohol served only as a last straw, and the reason itself is much deeper: boredom, addiction, separation from the emotional partner, loss of interest in him, lack of comfort next to a once close person, etc. This is worth thinking about more Really.
The husband is at a distance, I changed - what should I do?
Hidden here are other reasons: the thirst for attention and warmth of another person, the desire to avoid loneliness.
If the question of what to do, if you betrayed your husband for a woman is very urgent, then you should take advice from family psychologists.
- If you are not directly caught up in treason and you want to keep the status quo, cutting the truth of the uterus and confessing is not necessary. Far from always frankness is the best option.
- Think carefully about your mistake, maybe your relationship with her husband has become obsolete and you have become strangers. Then you should not cling to this marriage.
- Do not give in to guilt. Repentance is necessary, but to engage in endless self-flagellation is not an option.
- Try to reconsider your relationship with your husband and eliminate the causes that led to the sad consequences.