Crying child

Children's tears and tantrums cause in adults a whole storm of emotions. Many moms are immediately attacked by the same tearfulness, and some (often morally very tired) appear outbreaks of inexplicable rage. We try to take ourselves in hand and understand why the child began to cry often.

Why does a child become whiny?

The reasons for the appearance of tears in children are many, there is a list of the most common.

  1. Breastfed can begin to cry because of hunger, discomfort, a desire to sleep when they ask to mom for pens.
  2. At the sixth week of life before going to bed, anxiety and crying may appear - it is a kind of detente from the emotions accumulated during the day, the adaptation that will soon pass.
  3. Cutting teeth are also the cause of crying.
  4. Some children are afraid of loud sounds and voices, hearing them, the child cries.
  5. Falling or hitting - with any physical pain, this is a natural phenomenon, even if it does not hurt to sympathize and support. Just do not wail and regret, just hug the baby, say: "Nothing, it happens, but you're strong! And indeed, well done! ".
  6. Watching a sad cartoon or reading a sad story, seeing on the street a homeless animal.
  7. Very often crying children try to attract their parents, needing their help, support or just caress. Do not scold the child in this case. If he will feel your love and care, then he will grow up more kind and sociable. Having shown the child that you love him and are always ready to help you, you thereby create a base for friendly relations in the future. After all, there is nothing better, to know that mom or dad are best friends. If you do not establish such a contact, then you run the risk of encountering disobedience and strong hysterics in the future.
  8. Fear of strangers. And parents are very guilty here. Do not scare the child with the words: "you will not obey, I will give you to my aunt!". Children believe this and subconsciously begin to fear. If to continue to intimidate the child with people, then he can grow up an unsociable and unsociable person.
  9. Excess of emotions sometimes also pours out in tears.
  10. Illness of the child.
  11. Protest - unwillingness to sleep, eat, dress or do what mother says.
  12. Something new and confusing, causing fear, and then tears.
  13. Doctors are the most sick child callus. It is necessary to try to make a child with people in white coats. Try at home to play in the hospital, show that the examination - it does not hurt.
  14. Change the situation (kindergarten, school), try to develop interest in what he will be doing there.
  15. Resentment of the actions of other children. The child can remember and cry for several days, from the fact that someone pushed him or took the toy.

But in addition to these reasons, sometimes there are health problems, to deal with which you need with the help of a neurologist.

In any case, if the child is very tearful, it is necessary to look for the cause of his tears, because crying is a kind of language that you have to understand. And to calm the child crying, just stroke and hug him, because there is nothing more pleasant than the gentle hands of Mamina.