Not always a family life filled with joy and romance. There are periods when the spouse is aware that her own parents are enraged. In a fit of emotion, she can not objectively look at her relationships with members and family, find the cause of irritation. After all, once she was crazy about this man, but now everything turned upside down.
Let's try to understand the reasons for such irritation and what to do if the husband hates, how to regain the old feelings.
Why does the husband infuriate?
In order to determine the cause of irritation in relation to your husband, determine your and his psychological age. It does not matter the age specified in your passport. You can even act like an infantile, regardless of your adult age. And your husband can behave like a teenager with an inexhaustible supply of ambition. And it can happen that, in fact, you are angry with the spouse or, for example, infuriates her husband's sister simply because it is a type of people that you can not stand to breathe.
Everyone sooner or later, but wants changes in their lives. Once you fell in love with the paternal image of your beloved husband, but now you are tired of it. You want something new. And your husband was still in the image that you no longer interested in.
But also you can be annoyed by the fact that, for example, a husband wants to change relationships, and you do not want to change your image, you are comfortable with it. This is the psychological age.
The next step to determine the reasons why you are dissatisfied with your second half or why you are beset by the relatives of your husband is to find out which of you does not want to change anything, and who aspires to change everything in an instant. Make a list, which indicate the positive and negative sides of either your husband or other people who annoy you. Mark the top ten most important qualities in one and the second column. Show it to your spouse. Analyze together these qualities, including those that are angry with you. Discuss the options for getting out of the situation.
And now we will pass to the list of the main reasons on which you can be angry with your spouse.
- The reason for your irritation can be as if it did not suit you initially, but now it all came up again.
- So in that lies the reason that the husband has ceased to share with you important events from his life. You have the impression that your shared life passes by you.
- Your husband unconsciously refused to invest a small part of himself in his affairs. Because of this, you even more begin to control his life, etc. There is irritation and resentment towards the spouse.
- If, after giving birth, the husband infuriates, then try to renew the reason for the change in his behavior, or in your behavior, as a result of which, you feel irritation.
So, the reasons for irritation on the spouse can be a lot. Starting from the psychological age and ending with the fact that the causes of discontent are hidden only in the wife.