For whatever reason, men start a mistress, although they themselves are married and what a really married lover they are - many people are interested in such questions.
Talking about why a young married lover starts a different woman, most often the reason is a desire to satisfy his carnal instincts. But there are other explanations for this behavior.
Why do men have mistresses?
- There is no diversity . Many men claim that they start a mistress not immediately after the wedding and not at the very beginning of family life, but at the moment when his wife stops satisfying in sex, so he looks for an appropriate option on the side where he can fully realize all that he wants.
- Physiological and hormonal failure . In this case, psychology indicates that a married lover can go to find a mistress because his body has a hormonal or physiological malfunction, because of which his attraction becomes massive. Some men did not even think about getting a mistress, but in some cases circumstances might force: a wife's illness or something else.
- Previously aging . Everyone knows that a woman ages much earlier than a man, so a man as a "predator" tries to find a more suitable "fresh" option for himself and will never give up an accidental allusion to any sex. But apart from all this, such a married lover for some reason continues to be jealous of his wife. This is all because he believes that this is his woman and no one else should look at her.
- Mistress and purse . Surely, many already understood what is at stake here. Yes, indeed, although a married lover, even if a married lover, they may not realize that they are simply using them, pulling out as much money as possible from them. But, that same married lover believes that he should present his passion with gifts, buy everything she wants for her, and she pays him good sex. Of course, a married lover can not give money to his passion, because he believes that he owes her. But, is it really so? Of course, in the best case it can be, but not always. In most cases, the mistress will simply draw out all the money and say that he no longer needs it, and will go in search of the next. And what remains to the poor married lover? Of course, go under the wing of his wife.
- Education . Another reason that a man cheats on his wife is that he was simply brought up in the wrong way as a child. Surely, he was told in his childhood that a man can have many women, as much as he wants. But, for certain, the parents forgot to mention that their woman (one single) should be respected, and not offended. This does not apply to any physiological
factors, but is a kind of immoral education.
Also it is worth considering that the new couples that turned out after the marriage, must necessarily be approached by temperament. For example, if a man regularly needs sexual intercourse, and a woman once a week is enough, then one can say that these relations have not taken place, and they are waiting for an inevitable break or an adventure on the side.
Wherever he was and with whom he was a married lover, he was still jealous of his wife. And, even if somewhere on a business trip he met some lady and they had a fleeting act, the man does not focus on this, since the wife will never know about it, and therefore she returns home with a clear conscience. It seems to be like everything should be.