The role of the mother in the life of the child is very difficult to overestimate. After all, the mother is the most native person, the woman who, at least, gave birth and brought up, and ideally became the best friend for life. Mom is always there, you can rely on her in a difficult moment, she never betrays. But the realization of this comes, as a rule, already in adulthood, when a person already has his children.
And meanwhile, any woman who is just pregnant becomes aware of how to become her best mother in the world, and what her mother should do in order to earn his love and respect.
What should be a good mom?
Knowing how to become a good mom, comes by itself. We just feel how to behave with the baby, what he wants to hear from us at one time or another. But still, any woman is intrested in doubting, especially in such a serious and important issue as the upbringing of children.
That is why it is important to determine for yourself some basic principles that you should always adhere to, so that you can fulfill your role as mother in the family without too much thought and disappointment.
- Care for the child should begin before he is born. Talk with him, read aloud, sing songs and, most importantly, cultivate an inner sense of love for him, such a tiny and desirable!
- You should not only blindly love, but also respect your child as a person. This is quite difficult for some mothers, but is mandatory. Children very well feel how they are treated, and excessive care over time begins to weigh them. Instead, give your child a certain amount of freedom so that he learns to be an adult.
- To bring up a child correctly, to teach him how to do it, and how not, we sometimes practice punishment. Punish the child correctly, be strict, but fair at the same time. At all do not suppose, that the kid felt humiliated or, worse of that, unloved. Explain to him that he did a bad deed, but you still did not stop loving him. Also know how to ask a child for forgiveness if necessary.
- Down with uncertainty! Try to always keep abreast of possible variants of the development of events (this concerns health and development
children). If you know what can theoretically happen in the near future, in practice you will be self-confident, and this is very important. - Communicate with your baby as often as possible. Even if you are loaded with work, try to find time for communication, which is necessary for every child! Do not dismiss the questions of your little pokachki, do not ignore his conversations and requests. Full communication is the key to any good relationship.
Any woman can cope with the role of mother in the upbringing of children. After all, becoming a good mom, as a rule, is not difficult. Love, respect and care - and everything will turn out!