Traditionally it is believed that anal sex is a dream for almost all sexually mature members of the stronger sex, but many women admit "I want to try to have anal sex," but the truth is that they are prevented by all sorts of fears. And the leading position among them is the fear that it will be painful to have anal sex, and of course, the issue of safety for the health of amorous pleasures of this kind is also important. We can not say that all these fears were absolutely unreasonable, but with the right approach, the risk can be minimized. How to do it, we now and understand.
To be engaged in anal sex is harmful?
There are many warnings against the comfort of this kind, some researchers even say that anal sex increases the risk of cancer of the rectum. Certainly, when you engage in such unnatural kind of sex there is a certain risk, but most unpleasant consequences can be avoided if you follow the safety rules.
How often can you have anal sex?
The belief that you can engage in anal sex, how much you want, is wrong. With frequent stimulation of this area, the sphincter gradually relaxes, losing the ability to perform its functions, that is, to retain feces and gases. Therefore, every day to please yourself and a partner with this kind of sex is not worth it. But allocating one day a month for "going in from behind" will be an excessive precaution.
Pregnant can you have anal sex?
In most cases, anal sex during pregnancy is prohibited, and that's why:
- the risk of introducing pathogenic microflora into the vagina is very high, which is especially dangerous in pregnancy, you can reduce the risk with a condom;
- the skin around the anus during this period becomes very thin, which increases the risk of anal bleeding;
- during pregnancy, hemorrhoids may appear, and anal sex will lead to their inflammation, to reduce this probability it is required to use lubricants.
The only reason for anal sex during pregnancy is a decrease in the likelihood of experiencing pain due to better elasticity of the tissues.
How does a girl have anal sex?
Often, women agree to anal sex giving in to the persuasion of their partner, and they themselves do not expect anything good from this process. With such an attitude of "self-sacrifice" it is natural to talk about no pleasure and no question. Therefore, if for some reason this type of sex is unacceptable for you, then you should not agree to it. Also it is worth remembering that the first experience is very important, if it fails, then it is very difficult (and even impossible) for a woman to enjoy the process. To prevent this from happening, the man at the first contact should be extremely attentive and cautious, well, the following points should not be forgotten.
- At first glance, the question of how to do the first anal sex, looks somewhat ridiculous, what kind of wisdom can there be? But everything is not so simple, the anal opening for amorous pleasures is not intended, and therefore without proper preparation you can get a lot of unpleasant consequences. It is a question of preliminary caresses, in this case their importance can not be overestimated. Without prelude there will be no relaxation, and without it there will be no sex.
- If there is insufficient excitation, the petting of the clitoris or a small dose of alcohol can help.
- If fears that anal sex will hurt, do not let go, then you can try to develop a hole in advance. For this purpose there are special anal plugs.
- When practicing anal sex, the use of lubricant and condom is mandatory. Also, do not alternate anal and vaginal sex without changing a condom or going into a shower - the microflora of these two zones can not be mixed.
- Before you get down to business, arrange with a partner that, in case of pain, it will stop.
- Painful sensations can be associated with the approaching menstruation, and therefore for this period
it is better not to plan an experiment. - Before you have anal sex you should visit the toilet, of course, you can also do an enema, but this is only for the first time. The fascination with cleaning procedures for the body is not at all useful.
- You can not try anal sex if there are cracks or swelling in this area.
Anal sex can be a confirmation of the tenderness and trust of partners, bringing variety and pleasant sensations to an intimate life. But in any case, practice it or not, you decide only, and any of your decisions will be correct.