The theme of personal growth today is on everyone's lips. She devoted a lot of books, all sorts of training, etc. There are people who understand this term as learning from experience and knowledge, raising the level of intelligence, but such individuals may have problems with communication and self-esteem. Therefore, personal growth and self-development are deeper concepts that encompass all aspects of human life.
How to start self-development?
It must be said that this process is continuous and without the active participation of a person, because he grows up, "stuffs cones," draws conclusions and thus modifies his internal qualities. But active personal growth is somewhat different work, suggesting that a person consciously sets himself a goal in life and goes to her, he makes an effort to achieve it and changes his beliefs for her. This path is impossible without self-improvement, daily victories over yourself and your fears. In the psychology of self-development, personal growth is called the road to happiness and success .
What do you need to achieve them? Here are some of the steps:
- To love yourself with unconditional love. Do not blame for mistakes, do not despise. Instead, give yourself a chance that the next time you try to do better, change something, which will help you look at yourself with different eyes.
- Take responsibility for your life on yourself. Many blame their failures on anyone, without realizing that this is the position of the child, and not of an adult. It is necessary to start doing something without filing close people. For example, independently find another job, go through any training courses or climb to the top of Everest. Yes, it will be scary, but it is behind that new and unexplored that something will open that will promote personal growth.
- Self-development of man provides for the rejection of all negative, which prevents to make life better. For someone it's bad habits, but for someone the circle of communication. It is necessary to believe in yourself and that life can be beautiful, you just need to make the first step to it.
- Self-development for women is to give up any criticism of someone, including myself. There are no perfect people, and when the desire to correct someone wakes up, you just need to ask, and how will this make your life more joyful and happier?
There are lots of such aspects, but the main thing is not to postpone your own life for tomorrow. It is too short and it is important to live it here and now, and so that then it was not too bitter for aimlessly swept away years.