A couple of glasses of champagne, a passionate look of an unfamiliar man, a walk along the embankment, promising replicas. And the next morning you are suddenly abandoned. Accidental links, fast sex is a heartache, disappointment or replenishment in a collection of memories? Let's consider, how it is necessary to behave, then not to regret the consequences and what actually are casual intimate connections and what kind of prevention should be after such casual connections?
Some women try to attribute casual sexual intercourse with ease to usual not serious meetings on which unsuccessful completion it is not necessary to react especially. In fact, they do it badly. It is not possible to leave feminine psychology. In the first place for the woman always emotions, and then physical contact. Random links that bring, roughly speaking, sex without feelings, are rarely interested in women. Women more than men tend to plunge into the world of illusions, assessing relationships through rose-colored glasses. Therefore, random connections can permanently lead you out of a state of mental equilibrium. Even if at the beginning of the acquaintance, you tell yourself, you reassure that this acquaintance is for one day for you, and you do not plan to plan for a new friend, all the arguments will go to the background when feelings come to the arena.
Even married girls can fall into the trap of emotions, doing further reckless acts. Psychologists have proven that for marriage emotional betrayal is the most dangerous.
Preventive maintenance after casual sexual relations
Consider what it is necessary to do if there is an unprotected sexual intercourse (sex in a state of intoxication, a condom broke, etc.) with a casual partner.
- For several days after sexual intercourse, medication prophylaxis of casual connections is prudent (preventive treatment). It helps to prevent the development of dangerous bacterial venereal diseases (trichomoniasis, chlamydia, mycoplasmosis, ureaplasmosis, syphilis, gonorrhea, etc.). Patterns of preventive treatment are consistent with the schemes designed to treat a fresh uncomplicated infection.
- Medication prophylaxis after accidental ligaments can be replaced by an examination by a venereologist, which should be addressed 3-4 weeks after sexual intercourse. Most venereal diseases (excluding gonorrhea) have an incubation period. Therefore, during 3-4 weeks in case of infection, most of the venereal diseases do not manifest themselves and during this period laboratory studies are also ineffective.
- The option is effective, but difficult to implement. You can try to persuade your sexual partner to come to see a venereologist.
- The best prevention for you will be one that your venereologist will tell you, assessing the risk of infection.
It is important to note that it is recommended to enter intimate proximity without using a condom with a regular partner after taking medication prophylaxis after 5 days.
Other methods of prevention after casual sex are:
- Washing of the vagina or rectum with water, enema or syringing.
- Washing of the external genitalia with water with soap or water.
Washing of the vagina, rectum with antiseptics, containing chlorine (for example, Gibitan, Miramistin) or direct injection into the urethra.
These methods do not guarantee high efficiency. They can be used, but you should not rely on it.
In conclusion, it is worth noting that you need to protect yourself, your health. If you are depressed by the thought that you have been used, change the course of your thoughts. Tell yourself that you enjoyed it and took advantage of the situation. And then a random connection will be a pleasant memory for you.