"Sex after the first date is immoral!" - so many ladies will say. And others will object to them, "now is another time, why wait, bed can not be avoided anyway." And who is right? Resist temptation with all his might, for fearing to be seen as a girl of facilitated behavior? Or is it sex on the first date - is it normal, especially if you really want to?
Sex on a first date? Why not?
Did you know that the sociological survey of women over 30 showed the desire of women to begin the most important on their first date? 78% of the girls said they do not see anything unnatural in this end of the meeting. True, the younger generation is less relaxed, and only 7% of girls under the age of 30 said they are ready for sex after the first date. Well, everything is clear with us, the uncertainty in any matter is a favorite ladies' entertainment, but what do men think about this?
Funny, but these strongholds of logic give even more interesting answers. So, young men sincerely consider intimacy as the ideal end of the first date, however, about the girl who agrees to this, they will have low opinion. Some even take offense when the girl refuses. So how to be?
- On the first date you need to get acquainted, get to know each other closer, and not jump into a bunk. If, of course, there is a spirit for long-term relationships. After all, most men are easily accessible ladies are not interested. They can, and do not think anything wrong, just a woman who surrendered so quickly, ceases to interest them. There is a law: the level of interest is directly proportional to the efforts of men, spent on the conquest of beauty.
- And if the date was originally for sex, why pull? We looked at each other, liked and excellent, and the opinion of the partner in this case is not important - the mood for a serious relationship is not.
- In any rules there are exceptions. Both can be set up seriously, but the spark has skipped, and there is no strength to resist. They did not and have been married for several years. Or the couple met for sex, once, twice, the third, and then it became meaningless to part.
So, to ask the question on what date should be the first sex, it is not worth it. Better be yourself and act on the situation.
Do we allow oral and anal sex on a first date?
And it all depends on you and your attitude to these kinds of sex. Many girls believe that anal and oral sex on the first date is not the place, while the usual agree. This is due to the perception of such types of sex - they can only be allowed to a very close and loved one, and not the first one to meet. But if you decide to have fun, what difference does it make how you get it? After all, any kind of sex is aimed at getting pleasure, and prejudice in bed is not the place. Although, if you still cherish the hope of continuing acquaintance, it is worthwhile to be cautious - a man can perceive such behavior as debauchery, and this is not what anyone wants from his girlfriend.
Now it is not about rape, coercion is different. That is, the male and female view of this process is completely different. For example, after the first date the man invited me to come to him for a cup of coffee. Naturally, the process of making coffee ended in sex. But the girl could really expect to drink coffee, not even thinking about intimacy. Yes, she resisted and surrendered when she realized that it was useless. In this case, the girl will assume that sex was forced, whereas the man would think that she was "soap-packed". So learn not to take everything literally.