There are things that women simply can not understand. We are used to accepting men for strong and fearless personalities, but the older and more experienced a girl becomes, the more the myth of a knight on a white horse is debunked.
In addition to fully intelligible psychological fears, the average man is concerned about the fact that according to a public cliche, a representative of a strong state must be intelligent, secured and brave.
What is a solid man afraid of?
A man with a high level of income is very self-reliant and self-confident, so there are several factors that can hit his vanity very hard.
- Business. Every wealthy young man struggles to lose his business. In this case, a man realistically thinks that the world will collapse if his business is "covered".
- Reputation. Image - this is a thing that must be created for a long time, but everything can collapse at one point. It is this idea that leads to the nervous breakdowns of any rich man.
- Popularity. The terrible sleep of any man is the loss of attractiveness in the eyes of women.
Why are men afraid of relationships?
When it comes to serious relationships, most guys pale with fear. Some men are afraid to even look into the eyes. Sometimes the look can be so informative that only looking into the eyes of your beloved you can read the most intimate, so their view the guys prefer to hide, so that all the secret remains so.
Men are afraid to have children and responsibility because family life is a lot of duties and changes in life. Losing freedom is the worst thing a guy can imagine. To sit with friends and watch football or to break in the middle of the night and go to the bar, this is what a bachelor's life can not do without. In the conjugal life, the usual alignment is amenable to adjustment. Psychologists say that in most cases, the fear of taking responsibility in family relationships is due to the fact that the guy was brought up in an incomplete family and did not see examples for imitation.
In marriage, men prefer to join with weak and naive representatives of the fair sex, strong men are afraid of men and try to avoid them. A successful and beautiful girl, as a rule, needs a corresponding man. This provokes constant competition in the relationship and in order to stay in the saddle the guys need to constantly improve themselves, to which many are simply incapable.
Why are men afraid of sex?
Not very self-confident representatives of the stronger sex are very anxious to enter into intimate proximity because they are overcome by insecurity in their own strengths and fear of disappointing their partner quality or the duration of sexual intercourse. The men are afraid of the virgins, because they believe that after the first sex the girl will be forced to sob, cry in the tube and say that now he owes her a lot, since she deprived her of "honor and conscience" and hinted at going to the ZAGs. Well, as you and I understand this point is very subjective and carries only a small part of the truth. Undoubtedly, there are girls for whom sex is something very serious and obliging, but most modern ladies refer to this occupation more adequately and do not ascribe to it such a "universal" meaning.
Why do men fear divorce?
Contrary to popular belief that only women are afraid of divorce, and men do not at all seek to limit themselves
Summarize the above can only be that a real man is not afraid of anything and is capable of any feats, if your beloved demands it. If you need to cut wood, and if there is no such need, then you can cook a romantic dinner for your wife, and most importantly, do it all with love and without any excuses or hints.