Sometimes a woman can only guess how her object of sympathy is related to her. Between the first date and a declaration of love, as a rule, a lot of time must pass. What if the patience is running out and how does the man love to understand, when is it so important? Let's sort it out in order.
Strictly by points
Women sometimes display boldness and initiative in the matter of recognition in feelings. But before telling a guy or a man about his love, I want to understand that he also loves. After all, we all, one way or another, count and hope for reciprocity.
The fact that a man is attracted to you exclusively in sexual terms, will say the following signs:
- he seldom consults about your business and your mood, preferring immediately to "get down to business";
- he moves away from solving your problems, does not provide support and assistance;
- you rarely go anywhere, for example, to a movie or a club. Basically, you spend time either at one of you at home, or in a hotel room;
- he does not like to talk with you about serious things, his affairs, his family and children;
- intuition tells you that these relationships are based only on sex.
It also happens that a man perceives you as a friend, a comrade, but nothing more. He does not want to offend your obvious sympathy for him, so he tries to behave nobly. Many girls confuse this almost with an early proposal of the hand and heart. It is not necessary to feed illusions, if:
- he does not introduce you to others as his girlfriend;
- in a conversation with you, he often talks about how lucky he was with such a friend;
- he gives love advice about other men, tries to acquaint you with his companions;
- spend time together when you are the initiator of this joint holiday;
- he does something in the event that he promises you to do it.
General rule
How to understand that a man loves you, whether he is your husband, lover, or former lover. There are certain moments that give out any representative of the strong half, "infected" with a love fever. Do not doubt his feelings if:
- a man shows special interest to you. He always finds out how your business is, what's new happened at work, at home, in the family, etc .;
- he gives you pleasant signs of attention, tries to guess your moods and desires;
- he is slightly nervous in your presence, sometimes jokes unsuccessfully, but he is always very attentive to what you say;
- a man takes part in your life, care. It offers its assistance in solving any problems, including financial ones;
- he respects your opinion;
- a man listens to your advice;
- Do not criticize you without any special reason;
- always introduces you to his acquaintances, relatives and native people;
- Do not forget to call at least once a day and ask how your successes are;
- he loves your children in common with him;
- loves your child, who is his stepfather;
- builds plans for the future, in which there is a place for you;
- more often not "I", but "we";
- in bed, he cares about the desire to deliver primarily pleasure to you;
- a person who loves you will never raise his hand against you.
In custody
What is the love of a man? Care, patience, generosity and much more, as we have already explained. However, it is worth considering one feature.
As for men, things are a bit different here. For him, the love of a woman is a pleasure, a pleasure that is associated with it. This is not only an intimate part of the relationship, but also spiritual harmony, closeness, community of interests. As soon as the partner stops receiving this from you, he loses his pleasure, then the probability that he will move away is great.
Remember this and do not make foolish mistakes.