Women and men call it differently, in the opinion of the first, it is upbringing, while the latter consider it a carrying out of the brain, sawing, etc. According to the representatives of the weaker sex, all they do is for the good of the relationship, and not to somehow humiliate or insult the loved one. In order to fully understand this problem, it is necessary to listen to the opinion of both sides.
Men's opinion
For almost every member of the stronger sex, all novels develop according to the same scenario. Initially, everything looks like a fairy tale. Romance , love, feel like a hero, but then the relationship goes to a new level and you already share the second half of the common living space. This is where the fun begins. For some reason, a man so beloved turns into an armless creature, which in this life is incapable of anything. In general, so that a man does not do it, he will still be guilty of something, and it's quite difficult to live like this, and it's unbearable. Here, for example, is a very common situation: "A woman prepares dinner and asks that a loved one buy herbs, and he as always forgets. As a result of the scandal, he recovers in the supermarket and brings a huge armful of parsley in the hope of hearing the words of praise. But instead, the beloved from the doorway asks, and could not buy bread, because he knew that he was ending. " In such moments, every man wants to explode to throw this greens in the face of his beloved turn around and leave. This is for them and there is sawing and removal of the brain.
What is the reason?
All the blame is the usual misunderstanding of each other. For some reason, many women think that men do everything for spite, for example, forget to buy something, congratulate your cousin on his birthday, call in for a parcel, etc. It is necessary to understand what is in the mind of every person, and the man is not an exception, a huge amount of information and brains are sometimes so overwhelmed that you can not remember your name. Therefore, to avoid all sorts of reproaches and scandals, just remind your beloved once again what he needs to do, then there will not be any cutting.
Probably, for many women this is a real problem, because they can say: "You can not do anything, all people are like people, and you are headless. Every day for you I do everything possible and impossible ... ", instead of replacing it all with the usual phrase:" Take out the garbage ". Believe me, no man will understand the request, if you say everything as in the first version, so learn how to express your thoughts clearly and clearly.
The complete absurdity
A loving man always fulfills the requests of his woman, of course, if they are within reason. But when your wishes change every half hour, for example, do it, no, do not, do it, etc. A man will be regarded as sawing and he will certainly say that you do not know what you want. Therefore, before you ask something, clearly define what you want and only then state your idea.
Learning to be different
If you take into account all these wishes and begin to behave like a wise woman , then there is nothing to cut it for. Strong sex, of course, is capable of much, but just do not read the thoughts, so if you want something, do not expect that he will guess, but just say so. Thus, you will not be disappointed in him, and he will not have to rack his brains and guess what is the reason for your "pouted lips." A woman who has such a talent is priceless, a man will be ready to carry you on his hands and fulfill all the requirements and wishes.