Everyone wants to love, both a soldier and a sailor. It's not just words from a song, it's the realities of our life. A woman with the advent of this sweet feeling blossoms, a man loses his head. True, sometimes this loss provokes another craziness - instead of adoring the conquered, he betrays love.
Let's talk about the problem of love and betrayal today.
In sorrow and joy
A chance meeting, a first date, long and beautiful courtship, passion and awe, a long-awaited offer and, finally, a wedding. This is the classic plot of the development of relations between a man and a woman. The joys of family life are incomparable, just like the pain of betraying a beloved man.
What is it manifested in? Of course, in the first place, this is treason with another woman.
Reasons for treason:
- betrayal and betrayal of her husband could provoke your indifference to him. Very often with the birth of a child, a woman completely dissolves in it. This is a huge mistake, because you can not forget about her husband. After all, if not for him, there would not be your baby. Husband, whatever one may say, should be your first place, and then - a child. What kind of relationship between parents directly affects the child. Remember this;
- indifference to itself. The untidiness and lack of grooming makes the man look around in order to enjoy the female beauty. Remember what you were like at the time of your acquaintance. Want to keep your lover - you'll have to work hard. Do not forget that you are a woman;
- treason by circumstances. Random communication under the influence of strong alcoholic intoxication. It's sad, but it happens. We are all human beings and all make mistakes, both men and women;
- feeling left. Perhaps the love between you has remained somewhere in the past. They did not save and forgot about it completely. So your husband decided to make up for what he does not have. A constant lover is a serious alarm. Act immediately. In this fight, all means are good, unless of course you need this victory.
Secondly, lies and betrayal are manifested in the behavior of men. An unrestrained word, unfulfilled promises, insincerity towards a woman.
What makes a person behave this way? If the lie was for good, then you cherish and did not want to cause inconvenience. If you are trying to "put your brains on", then you are not taken lightly. A cruel lie and a bitter truth are the result of a disrespectful attitude towards you.
Do you forgive betrayal?
Ultimately, how to answer this question you decide. The main thing is to weigh all the pros and cons:
- it is important to consider how dear to you a person is;
- whether he regrets whether he sincerely repents of his misdemeanor;
- are you ready to forgive him, forget and never return to this topic again;
- it is not so easy to meet a person's soul and soul. Remember this. Errors do many, it is important for people to learn how to forgive.
Scary is not so much betrayal as its consequences. Any such act undermines trust in relations. After treason, it is extremely difficult to restore it. Suspicions in the future lie in the shadow of all the sincerity of your feelings. If you forgive betrayal - give yourself a chance to let go of this situation and forget. Otherwise, your relationship will continue to hurt you.
From the fact that next to a man a woman depends on the success of the relationship. A bright, courageous, interesting, self-confident and truly tender woman should remain so in marriage. Do not sacrifice your interests after the wedding, they must be remembered and, in extreme cases, slightly podvodit, but not ruled out. And if you are too lazy, admit it to yourself honestly. For the consequences, blaming someone other than yourself will be meaningless.