The modern institution of marriage is in crisis. In Europe, then practice unions under the marriage contract, they switch to guest marriages, and the universal percentage of divorces varies from 60 to 80%. Modern youth do not understand why it is necessary to marry, and prefers to live a civil marriage (however, this initiative usually belongs to men). And really, why do people get married?
Why should I marry?
Now, thinking about why we are getting married, many will respond - that there were legitimate children, and there was no need for their own father
- to undergo the procedure of adoption of one's own child. However, marriage actually gives a person more advantages:
- a person who is married is more likely to be hired;
- people who marry are rated by the surrounding people as more mature;
- usually parents with painful attachment to children weaken their grip at this stage;
- self-awareness changes, a sense of responsibility arises;
- If the second half has obsessive admirers - usually marriage is sobering, tk. the union is beginning to be taken more seriously;
- in marriage it is much easier to solve problems with housing, whether it be a mortgage or renting an apartment.
However, this is purely the external side of the issue. In fact, marriage provides much for the inner world of man.
Why do people get married?
Jokingly they say that if for some reason a man marries, it's only for the sake of clean shirts and borscht. In fact, marriage gives much more:
- in marriage, a person feels calmer and more secure, because now he officially has a reliable "rear";
- usually after marriage, a new degree of tenderness and emotional attachment between the spouses;
- the probability that trifling scandals can lead to a break in relations is reduced, because now it is much more difficult to disperse.
In general, relations, secured by law, give a person peace of mind and confidence in the future, the right to compromise and a stimulus for patience. We are all not perfect, but in marriage it is easier to forgive each other for minor imperfections.