We all live in a society. Every day we are surrounded by a lot of people with whom we have to somehow enter into a dialogue: relatives, friends, colleagues at work, sellers in stores, random passers-by - this list can be continued indefinitely. Agree, it would be great, never make mistakes in dealing with them: there would be no conflicts in the workplace, quarrels at home, it would be possible without problems, and at the same time completely correct, to precipitate a boor in public transport or establish relations with scandalous neighbors. Unfortunately, if this is possible in the real world, then the achievement of such an ideal seems to be quite a difficult task, but still it does not mean that it is worthwhile, at least try to improve one's ability to communicate (or, psychologists say, communicability).
The ability to communicate - the path to success
Most of us are able to communicate to a greater or lesser extent, but do not always do this as efficiently as possible. In order to improve communication skills, it is worth paying attention to several recommendations:
- do not try to get away from communication, on the contrary, be its initiator;
- try to enjoy the very fact of communicating with people;
- work on your artistry, some games can help, for example, "Song Questions", during this game a group of several people to divide into 2 teams, each of them asks a question, and receives an answer in the form of a line of the famous song: "Where is the same my beloved where? "-" In the dark blue forest, where the aspens tremble ";
- try to listen and hear your interlocutor. During his story do not interrupt, do not negotiate for it, and always maintain eye contact;
- Be optimistic - no one likes to listen to constant complaints about life.
Try to apply these simple tips in everyday life, and you will see - it will be much easier to communicate with colleagues. In addition, the ability to construct a constructive dialogue is important for the leader, it allows you to make the workflow more efficient, and therefore more profitable.
Ability to communicate with men
The ability to communicate correctly with men, perhaps, is necessary for every woman - this is one of the important components of attractiveness and family happiness. Unfortunately, in communicating with a strong sex, we often make a lot of mistakes. Most Frequent:
- too many words - and words about yourself favorite, because it's been known for a long time -
men do not like talkative women, but time after time we step on the same rake. Ladies, want to attract and retain a man - learn to listen and ask questions about himself; - emotional pressure - men do not tolerate the pressure on them at all, and emotional in particular, therefore, if you want to prove something to him, stop sawing, you better try convincing with logical arguments;
- excessive sarcasm - is fatal, for a relationship. Remember, never humiliate a man, especially in public. Most men can forgive much, but only not public humiliation.