Abstinence

It is not customary to speak about it in a voice, and therefore it is not difficult to guess that it is about something very intimate. Sexual abstinence is the process of transformation of sexuality. Complete lack of intimate life, despite the existence of needs for sexual satisfaction. A man's refusal to accept his sexual nature.

What threatens abstinence?

In its development, usually 2 stages are distinguished, depending on the duration.

1. Not prolonged abstinence. A person feels peace and tranquility, without experiencing any particular discomfort.
2. Long abstinence. The person experiences very strong sexual inclination and insurmountable discomfort, connected with impossibility of satisfaction of the needs.

Female abstinence is the cause of the occurrence of 60-80% of the nerves. In addition, 70% of the fair sex are experiencing a decline in work activity due to unfulfilled basic needs for sex.

Is abstinence harmful to women?

Scientists identify 4 main reasons why abstinence for women is the most obvious solution to the current situation.

1. Loneliness . In the period of loneliness, which lasts from 6 months to a year, the body expects big changes of a negative nature. Initially, loneliness affects only the psyche of girls. It can manifest itself in shopologism, addiction to rejuvenating procedures, excessive emotionality, resentment, uncontrolled aggression. Further, the changes occur at the physiological level: the development of breast diseases and stagnant processes in the pelvic area.
2. Age abstinence. Abstinence from sex in women who, due to their young age, do not have much experience in the field of sexual relations or do not have a permanent sexual partner.
3. Physiological rhythms. Such violations are most often observed in people under 25 or in the newlyweds. It is characterized not so much by abstinence from sexual relations, as by their irregularity, because sometimes sexual intercourse can occur several times a day, and sometimes does not occur within a few weeks.
4. The monk's syndrome. The most common type of sexual abstinence, which lasts from three years or more. Women in this case cease to follow their appearance and begin to react very aggressively to everything that happens. Erosion of the cervix or breast cancer, infertility - this is what abstinence can lead to.

Sex after abstinence

The resumption of sexual relations after prolonged abstinence, for many women is a certain problem. In the event that the woman again had the opportunity to completely surrender to love pleasures, she cautiously crossed the threshold of the bedroom in ignorance.

The consequence of abstinence in women can be the formation of a "widow" complex, which manifests itself in a reduced reactivity to the partner's touch and as a result of the inability to achieve orgasm. Sexologists for faster return to normal recommend to do masturbation, so that the nervous system "remembered" how it should respond to sent impulses.

Starting a relationship with a partner, do not be too hasty, because both partners should have a desire to enter into an intimate relationship. Do not force yourself to be attracted to sex, let your partner understand that you need some more time to get back to normal. When this time does come, do not hold yourself back in manifesting your sexuality and your second half will appreciate it.