If you know that your husband has a mistress and wondered how to separate him from her, then this article is for you.
Why do husbands have mistresses?
Perhaps your husband just could not resist the temptation to try something new. But, it is likely that having dissolved into the family, you forgot about yourself and therefore began to attract less of it. Or, on the contrary, they moved away, getting deeper into the work. Analyze your behavior, what has changed since you last made love with rapture. And try to return to your life important for both of you moments. If you only suspect that your husband is a mistress, then it is likely that you feel his readiness for a new novel. In this case, you need to quench your husband's thirst for love and tenderness. Well, and, of course, take care of yourself. If you have not felt like a woman for a long time, why should a man consider you so?
In addition to external and internal changes, try the following methods:
Prayer
In moments of despair, even the unbelievers before, people often turn to God. You can read the prayers to turn your husband away from the mistress , returning to the hearth of the family hearth. First of all, start with "Our Father", because this is one of the main prayers. It helps us to accept our destiny. Further, pray to Peter and Fevonii (patrons of lovers). Prayer should be hot and sincere, without the desire of evil and revenge.
Lapel
Problems of betrayal has always been, because our grandmothers used lapels, as a means to remove her husband from his mistress. Try to do the ritual with a candle. The purple (the symbol of cooling) is best suited. Take the two candles, put them opposite each other. Above the flame of one burn the leaf with the name of her husband, over another let the sheet with the name of the mistress be burned. Ashes compress in the palms of your hands and spread in different directions.
Conversation
In any relationship it is important to be able to speak. Torturing with suspicions, you just make yourself crazy. Mistress begins to be burdensome, when from a small (pleasant) secret she turns into a big problem. Yes, you should be prepared for the fact that her scores can be so high that a man, confessing, will go to her.
If you are not ready for the possibility of such a turn of events, then talk about your relationship. Be independent, do not be too soft. A man should feel your dignity, not the bitchiness or the position of the victim. The latter is especially hard for men.
The forces are on your side, because:
- you are time-tested. Yes, it is possible that a man attracts the novelty of a mistress, however, our brain is arranged so that all the unknown is rejected at a subconscious level. If a man has attached only sex to himself, he is unlikely to like the prospect of building a new serious relationship (otherwise he would have done it long ago);
- you associate with his family. If this were not so, and he needed a family life, then it would hardly suit a simple lover;
- you know his weakness and addiction. And this is your trump card.
If any methods do not help, you know how to stop in time. Appreciate yourself, because you are worthy of happiness and the best man. Maybe soon he will meet you!