Marriage is one of the most wonderful and desired events in the lives of almost everyone.
As a rule, when young people fall in love, the idea of marriage sometimes appears in their head and takes up more and more places every day. The result is early marriage. By and large, a wedding is a wonderful thing. Two loving people unite in an alliance to help and support each other, to share joys and sorrows. Is this true when the marriage is too young?
Early Marriages - Pros and Cons
Let's start with the bad moments, and then - season them with good ones. So, what are the disadvantages of early marriage?
- Unformed psyche. Of course, at any age it seems that the choices you make are really yours and well meaning. But the problem is that this feeling will be at every stage of growing up. Finally, the human psyche is formed by the age of 29. In life, it is full of examples. Even up to 23-25 years, a young man or girl will have time to change their views on life, interests and hobbies. Simply ADULT. And it is not a fact that the chosen one, who will be close, will really correspond to this new person.
- Accepting a sexual attraction for love. This is a fairly common misconception. As a youth of years and inexperience, guys and girls often take intrigue arising in the process of acquaintance, and attraction to the unknown for love. Then it turns out that everything that could be known is already known, and what remains is not interested in anyone. As a result, unpleasant experience and disappointment in people. Just because of misunderstandings.
- Misconceptions about living together. Perhaps, it is at this point that you can enumerate the life that suddenly fell on your head, and the lack of material freedom, and the absence, as such, of a prepared social base for independent living.
All the other disadvantages of early marriage are somewhere near these points.
As for why early marriages are good, it is:
- Flexibility in relation to the partner. People who have come together at an early age, it is much easier to get along with each other.
- Little difference in age with children. This will help parents better understand children and, possibly, share more interests with them.
- Long-term relationship. According to statistics, people who married early marriages celebrate a golden wedding.
Of course, the final decision to make it to a couple, but when there are so many convincing examples, you can wait a bit. Love, if it is real, will not disappear from this.