Remarriage

Girls very often idealize their future family life. Despite the far from perfect relationships in many families, those who have not yet acquired them, hope that they will have everything different, once and for life. Ideal love to the grave is a concept as psychologists say is very abstract, so it often happens that it is not possible to find one's own happiness in the first marriage.

Statistics of repeated marriages on the territory of our country show that more than 30% of couples are unable to maintain their first marriage. Problems usually appear after the spouses have lost the feeling of falling in love and all the unacceptable traits of the partner's character, intensified on the basis of everyday conflicts, become simply unbearable.

Psychology of remarriage

According to the people who did not take place in the first marriage, re-registration of marriage allows solving all the problems and according to statistics in most cases this is true, as repeated marriages are more stable.

Psychological problems of remarriage

Repeated marriages have several types, which are responsible for the occurrence of various kinds of problems:

  1. The nature of the termination of previous relationships. Preliminary family relationships could be very valuable for both spouses. Prints of the past, a kind of cliche in family relationships, often leads to a repeated dissolution of marriage.
  2. Having a family relationship experience. Conflicts in the family can arise on the basis of unpreparedness of one of the spouses for family relations.
  3. The difference in age between partners.

Divorce and remarriage

Paradoxical as it may seem, a remarriage with an ex-husband can be more successful than a primary husband, because over time people become wiser and revise their values, they realize the cost of mistakes made earlier and take out certain lessons from life.

Remarriage and children

Children from previous marriages, do not perceive the divorce of parents and entry into the family circle of a new person. The child should feel the love of both parents, who in turn should make equal contributions to his upbringing.

In adolescence, a child needs a strong and understanding family, because at this age self-awareness and views on future professional orientation and personal life are actively formed. The unfavorable experience of one of the parents can forever settle in the mind of a teenager the image of an unhappy family, and unwillingness acquires its own.