The theme of adultery is already so old that it would seem that it does not make sense to discuss it. However, how many people, so many opinions, and questions even more. After all, even the stamp in the passport is not an obstacle for marches on the side. And on the part of both spouses. After all, a married woman as a mistress is not a new phenomenon. But why do men increasingly choose those who are already tied up by marriage and how long can such a tandem exist?
Married lover and married mistress
The relationship between a man and a mistress is different. Some representatives of the strong half of mankind escape "to the left" from boredom, others, thus increase their self-esteem, and the third, which is not often, again there is a feeling of falling in love with its new passion. And sometimes for this reason they are divorced from their own wives. However, despite such examples, the ideal mistress for a married man is one that also has a stamp in his passport. Let's try to figure out why this happens.
What does a man expect from a mistress?
At least the difference from his wife, otherwise the adultery would not make any sense. Numerous polls of the stronger sex have shown that only those mistresses can meet all the requirements for psychological and physical comfort, that she herself is married. This is how the men themselves explain this:
- A married mistress of a married man will not create those problems that can arise with a free woman. Those. at least she will not try to destroy the family;
- the relationship between a man and a mistress, which has a stamp in the passport is much easier and financially. A lady who has a wife can not accept numerous expensive gifts;
- a married woman has no time for frequent meetings, so she will not bother with endless calls, and meetings with her will always be fruitful;
- men love diversity, as well as extreme situations. A mistress who has someone else - will always remain a mystery with which caution is needed;
- A married woman is more caring and sensitive, because she worries daily about well-being and tranquility in her family;
- married women are more calm and less selfish than free. In addition, a lady experienced in relations is almost always self-sufficient and independent and does not shift responsibility to the shoulders of a man;
- to part with such a woman is always much easier. She does not suit hysterics and scandals, and will be able to calmly find a substitute for the failed cougar.
And why a married married woman?
Based on such masculine arguments, a woman whose husband has a married mistress can be relatively calm. This hobby will not bring any problems, unless of course the lady knows about treason and is calm about it.
On the other hand, there is an opinion that women themselves begin to change their spouses only in response to their betrayal or out of feelings of revenge and offended dignity. In fact, looking at the truth in the face, it should be mentioned that there is another reason, no less common. "Try on" attractive men of the opposite sex are capable not only of men. There is even a joke: "Spring. I want to find a gentle man, but my husband does not permit. " And indeed it is. If the reasons for which a man begins to change are less known to us (boredom, the opportunity to feel welcome again, the desire to find diversity in life), then why such thoughts appear in the head of a married woman depends on the circumstances. This may include unsuccessful marriage, disrespect for her husband, lack of proper attention to her person, the notorious betrayal of the spouse, which the woman has learned, etc. Further, she meets someone attractive, who appreciated her, and the scenario of events becomes the same as that of men who change their spouses.
However, there is one very weighty BUT. Married mistress of a married man very much at risk with his family and can destroy it with his own hands. This is her nature - the woman concentrates on
Hence we can conclude that married lovers and mistresses, this, in fact, the tandem is logical. However, by nature, he can not exist for a long time: a man from such an alliance will have positive emotions, and be charged with additional energy, and a woman who, instead of her husband, gives her life-force to another man, ultimately ruins her family and her whole life. Is it worth it to risk, for the sake of this outcome of events, everyone chooses himself. But the convenience of such a connection on the side is obvious, which means that there will be new generations of married and married lovers.