Unfortunately, today's realities are such that violence in school among children not only exists, but also actively increases in scale. And it's not just the physical impact that schoolchildren have on each other, but also in moral pressure. According to the recently adopted law, a teacher who psychologically and morally crushes a student can be dismissed from work. Of course, if the facts are confirmed by evidence. It's no secret that the complaint of parents to the ministry often ends with the fact that the child is simply recommended to transfer to another school, since no one is going to dismiss a valuable specialist. And in some cases, translation is really a solution.
Violence in children's collective
With cruelty and harassment, schoolchildren meet more often precisely among their peers. If students of the lower grades have the "ingenuity" enough to hide things in the locker room, call names and kick briefcases, then high school students can beat the chosen victim, press morally, making full training impossible. Psychological violence in school can be considered a more sophisticated "torture", because abrasions heal, and moral trauma consumes the child from the inside constantly. Such a child becomes an outcast in the classroom, the more he encourages him to start humiliating in his own way. If a child is offended, peers are teased at school, his academic performance suffers, and bad grades are another reason for lowering his own self-esteem. Vicious circle. But it is necessary to look for an outlet in any case.
Parents help
If a child is offended in the class, and he is not able to resist the collective and give a worthy rebuff, without the help of the parents can not do. Noticing the schoolchild's anxiety, his reluctance to go to school, let alone the physical traces on his body, his parents must speak frankly with him. When the family has a trusting and benevolent atmosphere, the student will share his problems. If he is silent, you must take the initiative. And so that the child is revealed to you, not feeling fear and shame for being weak. The first thing that parents should do if a child is hurt at school is to report the problem to the class teacher. Sometimes serious conversation on a class hour with the whole class is enough to make children realize their mistakes. Teacher does not meet halfway or his measures do not work? Please contact the school administration. Sometimes it helps to solve the problem of personal conversations with children who offend your child, or with their parents.
If all these measures do not work, it is more rational to transfer the child to another educational institution, because if physical violence can still be proved, then moral humiliation is almost unprovable. Mental health of a child is more important than studying even in the elite and prestigious school itself.
Cardinal measures
Teachers refuse to make contact, the school authorities turn a blind eye to the problem, covering their employees, parents of offenders are sure that their children are "golden"? If the situation is so serious that there is no other way out, it is worth writing a statement
Prevention of school violence
Prevention of violence in school is an important component of the spiritual and moral upbringing of children. Classes on this topic are regularly held in secondary schools. Teachers attend training sessions, improve their qualifications. The police take active part in preventing violence in school. But the main thing is the family. Only parents can instill in the child confidence in their own dignity and learn to find a common language with any team.