The human psyche can not exist for a long time at the peak of emotions, so after a violent fall in love, a cooling period may occur. This period of time can frighten a partner who starts to think that a man has lost interest in her. In this case, you need to know the signs of the behavior of a man who has fallen out of love. After reading them, you may calm down, realizing that in your relationship there is just a period of calm and peace. But if the worst assumptions have been justified, do not despair, because life does not end with the departure of this man from your destiny. It does not matter why a man has fallen out of love, signs of emotional coldness will be the same.
If a man does not fall in love, how does he behave?
The behavior of a man who has stopped loving his wife, will be significantly different from the old, even if he will try. Since women are remarkably oriented in the emotional world, they can immediately notice changes in the behavior of the partner.
These changes include:
- Irritability and pickiness . Love helps you not to pay attention to many little things that begin to irritate greatly when a bright feeling goes away. A man can begin to look at the shortcomings or mistakes of a partner through a magnifying glass. He begins to irritate those things that he did not attach importance to before or did not consider them critical.
- Negative and quarrelsome. Because of the increased criticality in relation to the appearance or actions of the wife in the family, the number of quarrels and discontent increases. In this case, the man ceases to spare his partner's feelings: he can afford to express dissatisfaction in a rough form, not afraid to offend and bring to tears.
- People around notice the problem in the family . A man does not stint on the negative and can gladly release critical remarks about his wife in the presence of friends. Usually friends and acquaintances immediately notice changes in the situation and can ask questions about what is happening in the family.
- Indifference and coldness . If a man decides to stay in the family, despite the fading feelings, he becomes stale and indifferent. He is no longer interested in family matters, he pays more time to friends and hobbies.
- Closed . Many men share with their companions life what they have at work. They can talk about what happened at work, or ask for advice. But the man ceases to be interested in the opinion of a woman, if he stopped loving her. He did not want to share what was going on either.
If a man changes, how does he behave?
One of the most common causes of divorce is treason. To understand that a man changes, you can by such signs:
behavior change. A man can become too affectionate or too rude to divert his wife's attention from the problem;- he can blame his wife for treason, because he projects his behavior on others;
- a man complains of fatigue , justifying her unwillingness to spend time together or have sex;
- he has secrets, he explains - "on the job." To do this, he can put the password on the phone and e-mail.
How to behave if a man stopped loving?
If a man has lost interest in you, there are two solutions:
- Get out of his life and look for a person with whom you can build happiness. It would be easy if there was an easy answer to the question of how to stop loving a man who does not love you. However, despite the difficulties that will be encountered in this regard, and mental anguish, this option is sometimes the only acceptable.
- Try to understand what is wrong, and restore lost relationships. There are many families who were able to survive the crisis periods, and return lost happiness.