Why are we used to the idea that a man experiences an orgasm always and does not end during sex just can not? After all, this happens, and as practice shows, such problems are not uncommon. Tell me why the problem - if a man does not end his sex for a long time, he should be happy, but not think about what to do and how to correct this situation? The truth is in this matter, the ladies often complain that their partners are too quickly satisfied. But it happens, unfortunately, and vice versa. So let's figure out why this happens and what to do if a man can not finish for a long time.
Why can not a man cum during intercourse?
Often women, having discovered that a man can not finish, begin to look for reasons in themselves. Of course, in the absence of pleasure, a woman can be guilty, but more often than not it is in a man. And if you are troubled by doubts, talk to your partner, maybe it's just a feature of his body. After all, the amount and duration of sex a man needs depends on his sexual constitution. But if a long sexual act for your man is not the norm, then over the reasons for the lack of orgasm you need to think about. Most often they are as follows.
- The frequent use of alcohol is a common reason why a man can not finish for a long time. Most men think that for a perfect sex you need to drink a little before it, they say, this will help liberate and allow fantasy to unfold. Maybe it is, just a few can drink just a little, and it's much more difficult for an overdone man to finish, because the transmission of impulses from the brain and back becomes slow. If the same story happened to your partner, then you should not panic, he is to blame and will get his on a sober head. Simply try to extract from his state of benefit for yourself, just keep in mind that in pursuit of your own orgasm partner can be more harsh than usual, but because of the exotic for you, the types of sex agree with caution.
- The second most popular reason why an orgasm for a man becomes an unattainable dream is fatigue, constant stress and their treatment. Antidepressants act on the nervous system soothingly and on sexual activity they also affect. So if your partner takes soothing, do not be too demanding of him. If he does not succeed in bed, it will be a "control shot in the head." Better wait, and the man, appreciating your care and patience, will take the initiative.
- Also often a man can not get an orgasm because he is a perfectionist, he needs to be everywhere and in everything best. That's in bed, he tries to keep the same high bar, trying to make for a partner this sex the best. But this is the problem - the man is too addicted to the idea of satisfying the partner, and therefore he can not reach orgasm himself. In this case, a woman should help him, say that he is the best and tell me that your orgasm can be provided not only with intense frictions, for example, the caress of the clitoris will cope with it no worse. If the partner does not know how to do this, give him an example, a little man
can not be tempted by the kind of masturbating woman. And thank him not only with a word, but also with a deed - fulfill his sexual desire. - What to do if a man does not finish for a long time, but he does not experience depression, alcoholism, or signs of perfectionism, and you started to face this problem more often? Here you can not do without the help of a specialist, because the causes can be diseases of the sexual and endocrine systems, oncology, malformations and anomalies in the development of the genitourinary system. Do not postpone the visit to the doctor, because only he can answer the question why a man does not get an orgasm, and prescribe a treatment. So, if the problem exists, persuade a loved one to visit a doctor.