Smart people who are striving for development, set themselves certain goals, developing plans for their achievement. Many have such a habit - to tell all about their lives to other people. Let's try to understand why you can not tell about your plans to others, and what can be the result of violation of this prohibition. There is a reason for such a ban, because according to statistics in 95% of cases, the plans told do not become a reality.
Why can not anyone tell about their plans?
Many people like to dream, lying on the couch, and they are waiting for fate to bring them everything on a plate with a blue border. Others are working hard to get what they want, but nothing comes out as a result. Psychologists believe that this is due to the fact that people like to share their goals with others, which is the main obstacle to the dream.
The main reasons why you should not talk about your plans:
- Many people start to cause doubts and say that nothing will come out, so there is a waste of energy to explain and prove that the goals set will come true. As a result, instead of starting to implement the plan, the person proves his opinion.
- It is important to understand that not only friends are around but also enemies who, with their negative messages
they can simply "jinx it". - You can not talk about your plans and goals, because original ideas, for example, about starting a business, can be simply stolen and sold by another person. As a result, you will remain "at the broken trough."
Do not forget that the plans can change and then justify why the declared was not implemented, it will be uncomfortable and embarrassing.
In general, try to keep your mouth shut and it's better to implement what was planned first, and then share the result with others.