When a husband leaves the family, many wives begin to look for the cause of a break in themselves and engage in self-flagellation. Of course, analyzing your relationship, looking for errors in them and trying to fix them, is the right thing, which, most likely, will be of use. Therefore, before begging a man to return, showering him with promises, you need to pause and wait for emotions to subside. During this period it is better not to call a man, not to look for meetings and not to remind yourself of yourself. Perhaps the husband will soon feel that he really misses his wife and loves her, and his temporary withdrawal is a simple desire to relax from everyday life, misunderstandings or conflicts. But if this does not happen, you need to try to return it.
What if the husband left the family?
So first of all, let's talk about what you should not do:
- begging the man to return;
- sob, weep, and weep in front of him;
- Try to distract yourself with the help of new novels.
As it will take some time after parting, you need to ask your husband about the meeting. It is important for a woman to prepare for her not only externally, but also have the right psychological attitude. Preservation of calmness and self-control is, that is important, as tantrums and tears can scare anyone away. Perhaps, it is necessary to change the image: a new makeup, a hairdress, a change of the wardrobe. All this can cause a man's interest. Next, let's talk about how to return the husband who left:
- Tell your husband about your feelings . Without hypocrisy, finesse and insincerity.
- Apologize for your behavior if it did not meet the ideas of the husband about a good wife.
- Ask the spouse to give one more chance to save the family.
My husband went to his mistress - how to return?
If the husband went to another woman, then it is something he did not like in his family. As practice shows, men do not leave from where they are comfortable. Perhaps the constant complaints, reproaches, insults pushed him to such a step. Of course, no one justifies a man in this case. But, if the wife has strong feelings for her, then you should try to return it with all available methods.
Return the husband who went to another, you can, causing him jealousy , since any man is an owner, and to see even the former woman surrounded by potential lovers is unpleasant for him. Most likely, he will take measures to regain the location of his wife.
Try to become a friend of the spouse. Find common interests, support it. But in no case do not respond badly to his new friend. A man can not forgive this. Each of your meetings should be filled with ease. Do not try to make him feel
The husband went to another - what to do?
It is very important in this period not to lose courage, raise your self-esteem and continue to enjoy life. Take care of yourself, personal and spiritual development, your appearance, children. Dive into the work to distract. New acquaintances, mastering other professions, traveling - that's all that will have a beneficial effect on the appearance and emotional state of a woman. If the husband can not return, then wish him well and let him go. Remember always that you will not force love.