At the word "vampire", the imagination graciously throws up the image of such a deadly pale man with fangs and rather unusual preferences in food. But such a mystical interpretation of this word has almost nothing to do with the term "energy vampire". Almost nothing in common, because in fact there are similar features, because vampirism is mystical and energetic, both deprive a person of vitality, only in different ways. Energy vampires are people who lack their own energy, so they make up their reserves at the expense of other people who do not clearly benefit from it. What are dangerous energy vampires, and also how can they be recognized and protected? Let's take a closer look.
How to recognize an energy vampire?
Fans of horror films will easily tell how to recognize a vampire, because it is distinguished by elongated sharp teeth, fear of the sun and blood lust. Energy vampires, too, to learn quite simply, let their signs and are not as obvious and visible.
All energy vampires can be conditionally divided into three groups. Usually a person applies exclusively to one of these groups, each of which has its own characteristics.
There are vampires always complaining. They constantly tell everyone about their problems, failures, load others with their troubles and stuff in the same spirit. Thus, they exchange their negative and pessimism for the strength and energy of another person. By the way, the complainants are an excellent example of how to recognize the energetic vampire by external signs: they are always dull and you can hardly see how they smile. Also, there are aggressive vampires who provoke others into quarrels, foment conflicts and get all this pleasure. There are also excessively baking around all vampires who have an excessively developed desire to take care of everyone around, although this can hardly be called a concern. They are intrusive, try everywhere to stick their nose and "help" with advice, even if help is not needed.
How to protect yourself from an energy vampire?
Let's say you figured out how to recognize an energy vampire in the family, among friends, acquaintances, and so on. Having determined by the signs that there is such a person in your environment, you need
In order to protect oneself from energy vampirism, first of all, it is necessary to limit communication with this most vampire. But if this can not be avoided, then it is necessary to smooth out the acute angles in the conversation, not to be led on provocations and reduce everything to jokes. When a vampire realizes that he has contacted a person who is energetically stronger than him, he will reduce all his attempts to "bite the neck" to the very minimum, which you can not even pay attention to.