First date with a guy

A date with a guy, and especially the first one, is exciting for any girl, after all it depends on him how further relations will develop. So how do you prepare for the first date with a guy, how to behave on it, what you can do, and what not to do? About how not to spoil the first date, we'll talk today.

Preliminary preparation

At any age, we pay much attention to the selection of clothes, and the first date is not an exception. What to wear for this meeting, so that the guy like and does not seem too cheeky to him? Of course, we want to be sexy, but sex is not the most open legs and chest. On the first date, the guy will be nicer to guess your forms under the flowing cloth - she will outline the bulges, and she will not show too much. In general, clothes should be chosen as convenient as possible, but emphasizing your dignity. But it is not necessary to fall into the other extreme, even the most beautiful figure will not adorn the monastic attire, so it will not be of much use from extra modesty. And of course, your vestments must match the date of the meeting. Agree, it is ridiculous to appear on a picnic, dressed in evening dress and on high heels.

As for make-up, the main thing here is not to overdo it. It is better to choose a neutral-restrained image. It is not necessary to do an aggressive-sexy make-up or to paint nails with a calling lacquer color. Now your task is not so much to conquer the guy with his outer brightness (if he called you on a date, then you externally attracted him already), how much to convince him that it's interesting to spend time with you, to conquer with your manner of communication.

How to behave when meeting a guy?

What to say on the first date, what advice will there be? There are unspoken rules of behavior and one of them - a girl should not bear on a date some of her experiences and problems, you still do not know each other well, and so you better radiate goodwill and positive. After all, you are most pleasant to communicate with a person who smiles at you kindly and does not try to load you with your problems.

What to ask on the first date? Of course, what you are really interested in. It is not easy to play an interest, and in five or ten minutes such a theater bothers both. Therefore, try to communicate on topics that you and your interlocutor are interested in. And beware of excessive sarcasm for your part, because we know what, with all their strength, men are vulnerable. Therefore, we try to speak confidently (a girl with an inner core evokes interest and a desire to win), but without ridiculing the interlocutor. And yes, forget about the vagaries - a couple of times the guy will give you up if you are seriously involved, but constant nagging will not decorate you, nor will he add joy.

Often girls are wondering whether it is worth kissing or even sleeping with a guy on a first date. Of course, it's up to you, and maybe the guy will be interesting to you so much that he wants to move on to a closer relationship. But it is better not to do so. And the point here is not in moral principles (although if they are strong, the idea of ​​intimacy on the first date will not visit you), but in the peculiarities of the male perception. Men by nature are hunters, conquerors. And if he realizes a complete victory already at the first meeting, then the next one may not follow. Why, after all the positions are surrendered and complete surrender obtained?

Most importantly - be natural. You do not have to copy the behavior from your favorite actress or character from the series (books, manga), you are different, and it's great. Remember how stupid a person looks when he tries to appear by what she really is not. Be yourself, because you are interested in the guy, you, your personality, so do not hide it with finesse and mannerisms.

Who pays on the first date? Here everything is simple, according to the rules of etiquette, the invited person pays. But if the decision to go anywhere was mutual (the phrase "I'm inviting you" did not sound), then everyone will have to pay for themselves.

Remember, mistakes on the first date there are both girls and boys. And if after the meeting there was no continuation, do not blame yourself, maybe it's just not your man.