How sad it does not sound, but over time the relationship fades and becomes completely different. But this does not mean that they have deteriorated or the love has gone, no, just now they have moved to another level. Initially, most relationships begin with a "candy-bouquet" period, which lasts in all different ways, depending on many factors. During this period, people get to know each other, get used to, try to demonstrate all their best qualities.
Let's skip the description of what happens to the lovers further and stop at the moment when it seems that the feelings faded.
Again, like the first time
Remember yourself and your feelings that you experienced on the first date, how you were in love and overwhelmed with feelings. Your task is to repeat this. Organize a meeting in the same place, repeating as much as possible all the little things. For example, if it was in a restaurant, then order the same table, dishes, drinks. Having fallen into the same atmosphere, you will by will return to that happy time, when everything was like in a fairy tale. If the place of the first date is no longer, for example, instead of a restaurant there is now a supermarket, then come up with something new, most importantly, the most romantic . You can organize dinner on the river bank, on the roof of the house, in the park and a lot more places, the choice of which depends on your imagination and possibilities.
It's time to stir up the past
Take one evening to review all the photos, videos, reread the letters and notes you wrote to each other at the beginning of your relationship. You will remember how you were happy, loved each other. Be sure that the evening will be very cheerful and interesting, as you will share the memories of that time, which you had never guessed before.
Start with yourself
Leave your second half notes on the fridge, on the mirror in the bathroom and the like. You can arrange a romantic dinner after a hard day's work. Thus, the beloved will see your efforts and will want to answer you the same.
Common interests
Try your parallel lines of life into one, that is, try to spend more free time together, for activities that are close and interesting to both of you. Talk about plans for the future, about the goals and ways to achieve them, listen to your soul mate and heart or try to learn it. After all, real feelings live deep inside us and they were born somewhere on a subconscious level, and the problem of extinction is precisely that all the inner and sublime, for various reasons, we transfer to the material world in which there are limits, prejudices and facets .
Intimate talk
Very often problems in relationships arise because of understatement. Sit down at the "negotiating table" to talk about problems, about who cares and worries. Try to avoid the claims and criticism towards each other, in extreme cases, if the criticism, it is only constructive and not intrusive.
Men very rarely voice thoughts and digest everything in their head, which often leads to unpleasant situations or excessive emotional stress. Try it now
But if all attempts did not bring the desired result, then all the same, love may have passed (and maybe it was not love at all), and it's time to radically change something? Believe me, if a man really loves, he will do anything, if only his woman was the happiest on earth.