I got my mother-in-law

Bad relationships with the mother-in-law are not uncommon in young families, but sometimes the daughter-in-law complain about having their mother-in-law got them. What if you do not have a relationship with the "second mother"? What should I do in this case: to put my mother-in-law in my place and try to establish relations with her in your frameworks or to come up with a way how to get rid of the participation of mother-in-law in the life of your family?

What if my mother-in-law got it?

If the mother-in-law irritates to the impossibility of its "valuable advice", there is an irresistible desire to find how to take revenge on the mother-in-law. But think about whether it is worth doing, maybe not everything is so bad, and there is a way to make friends with the mother-in-law. After all, she is still the mother of your beloved man, and since she managed to raise such a good person, maybe she also has something to love? Often the mother-in-law does not like her daughter-in-law because she is jealous of her son to her, because she worries about her child, and there is nothing unnatural in this. Try to understand it, explain to your mother-in-law that you love her son no less. Try to listen to her advice, make a person pleasant, but you can do what you want.

How to get rid of the influence of mothers-in-law?

But sometimes it happens that problems with the mother-in-law do not stop, she refuses to make contact and all your attempts at reconciliation disappear in vain. What to do if you often repeat your girlfriends "hate your mother-in-law" and think how to destroy her influence on your family? Put your mother-in-law already in place, enough to spoil your life! And that's what you can do if your mother-in-law got to the edge.

1. Your mother-in-law loves to come to you without warning, calling from the station with a request to meet? Do not even think of taking part in this, let the husband himself meets his mother, and you do your own business. Was it planned to meet with friends or go to a beauty salon? Do not cancel them in any case, show your mother-in-law that her arrival must be agreed in advance, with open arms no one waits for her.
2. Does your mother-in-law consider herself a lady in the prime of her life? Destroy her illusions, just do it under the guise of caring for her precious health. Ask how she feels and explain that she looks awful.
3. My mother-in-law likes to eat delicious and always gives instructions how to feed her son? When you arrive, cook some boiled vegetables and all without seasonings and supplements like roast meat or fish. Disguise it under the guise of taking care of her son's health - he's had problems with digestion lately. But for the sake of the beloved, this food will be the whole family.
4. The mother-in-law wants to cook something for herself? In no case do not allow it, all the products and dishes are removed from the prominent places. And in response to the request of mothers-in-law to give her what is necessary, answer "well, what are you, Mom, why do you bother yourself."
5. If you know about the arrival of mothers in advance, start repairs in the kitchen, bathroom or toilet. Tell her husband that you would like your mother-in-law to see that everything is beautiful and clean in your home. The main thing is not to have time to complete the repair for the arrival of the mother-in-law, even if you have a toilet door removed, the kitchen is covered with newspapers, and the batteries (floor, walls) with freshly painted strong smelling paint.
6. Let it happen "before the arrival of the mother-in-law" - the TV will break and all the series will become inaccessible. And the children are exactly at the time of finding their mother-in-law at your guests will be playing all evening with neighbor's guys or be in the classroom in a section or a mug.
7. Let the night you overtake an eerie insomnia, which you will be quiet under the doors of the mother-in-law's room, singing a melancholy voice.
8. When your mother-in-law finally decides to leave your house, you do not need to see her off, let her husband do it too. And you will dissuade yourself from your unexpectedly begun malaise.
9. Pay special attention to her husband - he can be outraged by all that is happening. Therefore, more often in this period, assure him of your love, be gentle with him. That all complaints of the mother-in-law did not find a response in his melted heart from your caresses.