Ideal husband

It's not a secret that almost every female representative dreams of a "prince on a white horse" since childhood. And of course, each at the same time represents some kind of his own man, whom she could proudly present with the "diploma of an ideal husband" after marriage. But what qualities does this character have? Let's try to figure it out.

"So as not to drink and do not smoke, and always gave flowers ..."

Flowers and not only on holidays, but also the absence of bad habits - certainly a big plus, but this is not the whole list of qualities, in order to draw a portrait of the ideal husband. Even though often the girls are guided by the rule "love of evil" and choose the bad guy, nevertheless, the most important are, first of all, simple human qualities. And that would teach their men how to become an ideal husband enough to hint them at some rules:

  1. First, of course, be neat, clean, attractive, preferably sports. And also smart, reliable, caring, gentle, calm and confident.
  2. To love children, always be able to support your family and ready to substitute your strong male shoulder.
  3. Secondly, to value you as a person, to be interested in your inner world, to enjoy your successes, to be able to support in case of defeat.
  4. Thirdly, it is very important that your man continues to look after you and after marriage, and not just at the beginning of your relationship.
  5. I did not forget to pay attention, because, sometimes it's enough just to talk together, to be able to listen to each other.
  6. I remembered of the appearance of tenderness: when I left for work, I smacked at least a cheek, and when I came home from work, I smiled that you would immediately feel that he was bored and glad to see you.
  7. Pamper you, his beloved, pleasant surprises: for example, unexpectedly invited to a date in a small cozy cafe.
  8. And, of course, it is very important to keep the passion after marriage, because, for us, it is so important for women to feel that we are attractive and desirable, even despite the years spent in marriage.

The ideal husband is his wife

You can enumerate endlessly, but do not forget that first of all an ideal husband does not happen without a wife, a wise wife. You can have as many higher education as you want, but when the girl lacks wisdom, she is unlikely to be happy in marriage. Psychologists have long studied successful alliances and concluded that women who are in a happy marriage behave in many ways similar.

  1. First, they consult their husbands. So the man is arranged: he consults - it means that they respect him, then he needs it.
  2. Secondly, do not use negatives in a conversation, but communicate with your man in a "positive" language. For example, "do not forget to call me" enough to change to "call me necessarily."
  3. Third, tend to tenderness, affection, because it is these qualities so generously awarded the woman nature, why not use them?

Golden mean

Nevertheless, nothing absolutely perfect in life does not happen and it is always better to observe the balance, adhering to the golden mean. After all, if everything was exceptionally perfect, it would be simply boring to live. Of course, every girl has her own unique ideal, but she should not be good not with the separate positive qualities of the ideal husband, she should see in her chosen one, first of all, the developed personality and be happy next to him. Remember the saying "they love not for something, but in spite of". And if you have found a person, albeit with shortcomings, but with which you can put up, and you even like them - this is your man. In search of the ideal, the main thing is not to get lost.