You often tell yourself, why am I alone? What do I do now? The girlfriends are all married and do not call you to rest on the weekend! Enough to suffer, just think about why it happened.
The fact is that a lonely life does not appear suddenly, many small events led to this, which later turned into your problem. This is really scary, painful and hurtful, when there is no one to spend a day off, there is nobody to go on vacation. Your lovely, good friends began to suspect you of the worst thing - the desire to take away their man. Do not take offense at them, it is natural for a woman to take care of the safety of the family hearth.
Look at the most common causes of loneliness, maybe among them you will find your problem.
Problem number 1
Women who are afraid to choose their companions are not the first-class man, are doomed to be alone.
Are you beautiful, smart, always been in everything first? Then you must have the most beautiful husband, with good manners and a successful career! Yes? Forget it! Understand, the guy who conducts cable television, too, can be a caring father, a loving husband and soon achieve a lot. Do not look for easy ways - you're a winner! Then try, look narrowly at others. Do not be afraid that your friends will condemn you or someone else for your choice. Be proud of your second half! Tell yourself: I do not want to be lonely, I do not want to be pitied!
Problem number 2
I have very strict parents who do not allow me to meet with a guy, do not allow to invite new friends to visit. Probably, I'm very lonely just because of this ...
But this is not at all a problem if you find the strength to change the situation in yourself. You - an adult and an independent person, but a beautiful and single woman - so it should not go on! Your task is to take off your parental care, because the parents' fear for your future is nothing but a fear of their own loneliness. Convince them that you will also love them and then, when you get married, but now - rent an apartment urgently!
Problem # 3
I once burned very hard, so I'm very lonely and unhappy.
A difficult problem, but it is quite solvable. You know, there are more good people in the world than bad people. The world is interesting and diverse. Forgive their offenders everything, crumble in the dust unpleasant memories. The first step is in the fitness center! This is not a night club where guys are looking for easy dating, this is a meeting place for people with common interests. Find in your city tourist organizations, they are always strong enough, reliable, enthusiastic men. It's fun, interesting - very soon you will not be alone either, because you will go camping, go on an early Saturday morning with a loved one.
Now you understand how difficult it is to be lonely, so find the strength to open up to a new relationship. If there are mistakes, they will be your mistakes and nobody will condemn you for them. Life is a movement, not standing water, which, as you know, does not attract anyone to swim in it ...